The biggest headache for many women after marriage is the infidelity behavior of men, which they have never been able to do, let alone know what men are cheating for.
In women's hearts, it is their innate nature for men to cheat, and they never regret their cheating behavior. But. Is there really no trace of regret for a man's infidelity?
The answer, of course, is not that. A man's infidelity not only brings regret but also many things that women do not know.
66% of men feel guilty when they cheat
This conclusion is somewhat frightening: it's not just shameless bastards who steal. Newman pointed out that in fact, 68% of men who cheat never thought they would be unfaithful, and they almost all hope they didn't cheat. But obviously, guilt cannot stop a man from cheating.
Men are good at dividing emotions, "Newman explained." They can suppress an emotion (such as guilt) and deal with it later. "So even if your husband swears he will always be loyal, don't expect that to happen. To achieve your ideal marriage, you must work together, which is very important.
48% of men believe that they are not emotionally satisfied
The statement that men steal for the sake of sex should be stopped, with only 8% of men saying that dissatisfaction with their desires is the main reason for their infidelity.
Our culture always believes that men speak with their lower body, "Newman said.
Many men feel that asking for comfort from others is detrimental to their masculinity, so their emotional needs are often overlooked, "Newman said." But you can develop a habit of mutual appreciation and consideration in marriage - and once you do, they usually cooperate
77% have a good friend who has also had an affair
Mixing with friends who can steal can make men feel that such infidelity is a normal and logical thing. His subconscious told him: My friend is a good person, but he happened to betray his wife. Perhaps even a good man can't avoid cheating.
It's difficult for you to prohibit your husband from interacting with 'Mr. Greedy', Newman said, but you can suggest that they go to less tempting places to kill time, such as exercising or dining in restaurants instead of going to bars or ballrooms. Another strategy: Make friends with happy families whose values are similar to yours, establish social circles - this will create an environment that protects marriage.