Post Date December, 03 2023
As we all know, people can take medicine to relieve their pain when they are sick, but what should I do when my marriage is sick? My husband has been cheating for two months, and the third party outside is very arrogant. When I found out, they were already in bed. I quarreled with him, scolded him, and complained that it was not easy over the years. He went from silence to impatience, and finally moved out. In order to save my five years of marriage, I entrusted others to help me find out the details of the third party. After several twists and turns, we met a third party. I didn't have the courage to see her alone, so I took my best friend and went with me.
When I first met, I thought I was mistaken. In the photo, she looks very young and her skin is temporarily white. Now, this person is in front of him. Apart from his famous brand clothes, there is only an old and ugly face. I can only admire the power of PS. I have never had a direct conflict with strangers. In the face of the person who destroyed my family in front of me, I didn't know where I had the courage to show her identity directly, let her know the truth, and quickly leave my husband. She was calm and said with a sneer, "I heard Xiao Wang (my husband) talking about you all day, saying that you are nervous. Today, it seems that he doesn't want you.".
I was trembling with anger from her and tore her up. One accidentally tore her clothes. She even slapped me in the face while I was not paying attention. I was stunned. Is the third child so rude now? In front of the original wife, she has no sense of shame. After I was irritated by her, I continued to resist. She pointed at my nose and scolded, "Your husband should not have you, bitch." While talking, she also asked me to pay for her clothes. My friend advised me to pay attention to my image in public. At this time, my husband came out of nowhere. Smiling, he shouted "Sister Li", exchanged greetings, and then dragged me home again and again. It felt like he was taken care of by the other party in front of the third party.
Now, he asked me for a divorce, saying that my personality is not suitable for him. What he needs is a mature woman. I was full of despair and asked him how much he liked the third party. My husband said proudly, "She can give me spiritual food. I need this power". My friend advised me that a man like me is not worthy of my love. I also know that he has no conscience, but it is really difficult to abandon his five-year relationship. He has proposed a divorce. What should I do?
Reply from the consultant:
Today's society is full of temptations. The pursuit of fame and wealth, and the pursuit of stimulation, make people constantly fall into a misunderstanding. Your husband can be said to be the master of the family for fame and fortune. From the look of the third party wearing a famous brand and full of confidence, you can see that she is a strong woman and has rights. Your husband's association with her will certainly help his career. Because your husband needs her, in front of you, she doesn't have the inferiority complex of being a junior. Her arrogant personality makes people hate her.
Now that the situation has developed into this, you should not be too sad. From the time you meet a third party with your best friend, it can be seen that your character is a little timid. The more timid a person is, the easier it is to be bullied. Her career is not as good as hers, and she can't lose her momentum. If your husband wants to divorce you, you should also set your own bottom line. Don't give in on property. You should guarantee your life after divorce. It is better to recognize a person early than to be kept in the dark and compromise. I wish you happiness.
