Post Date December, 03 2023
Being a father is also a turning point in a boy's life towards a man. When cheers come from the operating room, your heart is happy, but after the joy, your mood will gradually become heavy, because there will be a lot of problems pestering you! So, do you know what problems you need to face?
Economic pressure changed from 2 to 3
After the baby is born, the first thing that fathers think about is economic issues. Previously, there were two adults living together, but now there is an additional child. But everyone knows that children's expenses are much larger than adults', so there are more than two people to count up! The monthly salary received has not changed, but there are much more opportunities for outflow.
Countermeasure: There are two reasons for not having enough money: one is insufficient financial resources, and the other is not planning. The first type can only use one's brains to find ways to make money, while the second type requires having a clear mind, formulating a family financial plan, setting a budget for monthly household expenses, resolutely not buying unnecessary items, and comparing the necessary items with other stores.
My wife's temper is getting worse and worse
Since my wife became pregnant, many husbands have started to complain about her bad temper. What should I do now, a gentle lady who used to be so gentle, always yells and screams?
Countermeasure: Pregnancy in October is a painful and joyful time for every woman. They can constantly feel the baby's heartbeat, but also feel distressed by some pregnancy reactions. At this time, their emotions are most likely to get out of control. Expectant fathers should understand more, establish a healthy lifestyle and dietary habits for them, and find ways to solve pregnancy reactions. I also need to take some time to accompany her out for a walk and relax.
Baby takes away wife's love
Baby is the "third party" between husband and wife. With him, my wife began to ignore me and left care and tenderness to the child. I became jealous!
Countermeasure: No one can match a mother's love for her baby, but this does not mean that you cannot participate. As a father of a child, you should take on the responsibility of taking care of the child and spend more time with the child and wife, so that the wife will naturally not stay away from you. In fact, in her heart, you are as important as him, but the child now needs more care.
How on earth should we take care of children?
As soon as a child is born, fathers will face a series of complex problems such as "diaper wrapping, breastfeeding, dressing...". These are too unfamiliar for them, what if they don't know how to take care of their children?
Kind reminder: Although novice dads don't know anything, who didn't start with beginners! As a father, one should always shoulder the heavy responsibilities of the family, not only financially but also in daily life. And you need to prepare in advance so that you don't panic!
