Post Date April, 15 2023
The men of the post 70s, the younger being 30, and the older being 40, are supposed to be the masters of man and father. But there is a group of men who not only haven't married, but also remain single. Why don't they get married? What kind of life do these single men after 70 lead?
Why Don't Men After 70 Love Marriage
Not getting married, whether forced or resourceful, is always a situation they choose based on their own circumstances, and it is considered a pleasure for single men to console themselves.
The Ten Bitters and Ten Joys of Singles after the 1970s
1. There is too much pressure in life
In modern society, the main pressure comes not only from work but also from life. Facing the challenges of marriage, it is not as simple as making friends. It is necessary to solve a series of practical problems such as houses and cars, and these pressures of life can make men choose to give up marriage.
2. Not enough funds
In addition to houses and cars, it is more important to have enough money to live. From the moment you are about to say goodbye to being single, you need to spend money to cultivate relationships. The preparation work between marriage is basically accompanied by money, and the life after marriage is naturally impossible without enough money.
3. Pick and choose, pick and choose
Perhaps many post 70s men have already talked about many girlfriends, including those who cohabit, and when faced with the sensitive word marriage, they always have the heart to quickly bury themselves. They start to nitpick, picking one after another, and in the end, what they like is not suitable for others, and what others like is not like.
The Ten Bitters and Ten Joys of Singles after the 1970s
4. For the so-called study and career
"I thought I had no end in learning and had been in a learning state all the time. As a result, I studied for an undergraduate degree in a junior college, and then studied for graduate school. After finishing graduate school, I still wanted to study for a doctoral degree. I was already in my 30s, and just started working, I was even more reluctant to mention getting married. In order to have more choices in the future, I have been in a waiting state.".
5. Celibate
Obviously, they don't want to get married, like celibacy, like freedom, don't like being constrained by others, and don't need the shackles of life. Especially married men, of course, are not as free as unmarried men, so the majority of male celibates after the 1970s are relatively selfish.
