Introduction: In this society, there are many men, but for women who have strict criteria for choosing a mate, these men are divided into three categories: bronze, silver and gold men. The difference between the three is that getting gold is like "one person gains the way, the dog and the chicken rise to the sky", and losing gold is "a fall in the bucket, and it is extremely difficult to turn over". The reason lies in the inside story of the gold medal man. Let's take a look:
1、 Bronze Man
Men with bronze medals are third-class men. Most people have the ability to buy cars and houses. The source of this ability can be found in two ways. The first is the rich, including those who rely on their own and those who eat the shadow of their ancestors. Now they are also known as the rich second generation. The second is the yellow face and fat people, who are willing to be mortgage slaves, loan slaves and car slaves, and pay for the current deformity policy without knowing it.
The bronze medal man has a low realm, and his ultimate goal in life is to buy family property. They like to show off consumption, and take houses and cars as the main signs of success; They have a narrow vision, lack of aggressive and creative spirit, and are cautious and tolerant of humiliation.
This kind of man attaches great importance to a stable family life, which can make you live the most secular but also the longest family life. It is not difficult to capture their hearts, because the busy entertainment or work makes them need a super life butler. Maybe every morning when he wakes up, he shouts: "Where is my watch", "Where is my racket?"... Without you, he will never find the white T-shirt from last summer, the tie from his ex-girlfriend, or even the old towel that has been used as a rag to wipe his face. As long as you clean his room and take care of his children, he will recognize you as his lifelong partner.
2、 Silver Man
Silver men are generally called second-class men. They rent cars and houses, but they are better than bronze men. The winning point is not material, but spirit. The survival status of silver medal men mostly stems from the following two situations: first, those who are able to buy cars and houses without doing anything; The second is those who are unable to buy a house or car and still enjoy themselves.
They are the first in the realm and pursue different things: concerts, tourism, reading, entertainment, etc., and spiritual consumption accounts for a considerable proportion of daily consumption. The silver medal man values spirit over material, has a broad vision, and has the advantages of being open-minded, enterprising, and fighting spirit.
Although they are the source of social vitality and innovation, their hearts are too free, and their love and marriage are not stable enough and turbulent enough. If you fall in love with their hearts that run far away, you must explore their commonalities with them, so that the occurrence of love becomes accidental and romantic. The same hobbies and similar hearts can infect him. You just need to find them and carry them forward. He will know that he has found his soul mate, and will love you deeply.
3、 Gold medal man
In other words, the gold medal man is naturally a first-class man. They don't buy a house or rent a house. They own cars and houses for them. Men at this level include elites from all walks of life, such as workers, farmers, scholars and businessmen. It is convincing to eat on their own. The number of such gold medal men is very small. If you can meet one, don't be surprised too much. You should play steadily step by step until you become his "psychological mommy".
In the heart of every seemingly powerful man, there is a weak and soft place. No matter how strong a man is, he is just like a 6-year-old child. When he is most tired, he just wants to lie in your gentle embrace. When he is most confused, he also regards you as the only object he can talk to. You are his spiritual support. He may have brothers or beauties. They only share his happiness, and his real inner pain is only left to you, So for him, life without you would be unimaginable. When you really capture his heart, you can enjoy it secretly.
The above is the classification of third-class men. I believe that after seeing their differences, many single women have a preliminary understanding of their values. Then, the next step is to play their personal charm and capture them.