Post Date December, 03 2023
My wife is a famous beauty in our school. After graduation, we both chose to stay in this city, and later married. She worked in a foreign-funded enterprise, and I successfully entered a state-owned enterprise. Because of the different nature of my work, I often fly back home and abroad, but she is more fixed. Except for home is the unit, which is basically the two-tier life mode, so we usually spend little time together, At the beginning, we were also quite used to each other. Every time we came back, our wife looked forward to it, like the couple in the honeymoon.
This kind of life lasted for about half a year, and she began to make trouble with me gradually. Maybe I was a careless man, and she didn't say anything specific. She just recalled that our current life is very boring. She asked me if I could apply to the unit leader and transfer me to a new position. She told me several times in a slow way. I thought she was too unreasonable. Why is it now, Anyway, I am also fighting for my family and my future happiness. Why does she not understand people so much?
Besides, there are thousands of people in this unit, one radish and one pit. Who can exchange with you? Just asking for someone is enough for you. It's not certain, so I didn't pay attention to her later. After seeing that I failed to transfer, she began to complain that life was boring again. She said what kind of husband and wife it was. She said that I had changed and was no longer like before.
But I think she has changed and become no longer as reasonable as before. For this reason, I have done a lot of ideological work with her and said that I will try my best to change the current situation of life in which there are fewer people and more people. With my painstaking efforts, she also seems to start to understand me slowly, so that I can rest assured of my work and don't think too much about things at home. And I also specially installed broadband in my home in order not to make my wife's life too boring, Let her pass the time when she is free, and contact me when she thinks of me.
It's strange that my wife really rarely urges me to change my job. For a while, I suddenly remembered that she hadn't called me for a long time, so I took the initiative to call her and asked if I did. What I heard was a little far-fetched yearning for love. It felt like dealing with me. Suddenly, I had a bad subconscious. At this time, I was ready to go back to China for my annual leave, and I wanted to wait to return.
However, this time, the wife's reaction was not very strong. According to the past, she wanted to see me immediately. But this time, she obviously felt that she had changed. Even after a long separation, she was no longer as active and urgent as before. I asked her what was wrong. She said that she was uncomfortable, maybe it was too long, but she didn't want to. But her intuition told me that she had a secret feeling. She was obviously perfunctory with me, but I couldn't get to the bottom of it. The couple had been nearly two years, I can't doubt my wife casually.
In the first few nights, she could barely sleep with me at the same time, but she always had to get up several times at night to ask her what was wrong. She said to go to the bathroom, and I asked her why she didn't turn off the computer when she slept. She said that QQ was upgrading. Think about it. She must be too bored at home. Having a hobby is not a bad thing, so she didn't think about it.
After several days, she began to go to bed later and later than I did. She said that she was used to going to bed early and couldn't sleep. I lived a regular life and went to bed at midnight, so she ignored her. Later, she didn't sleep until 2:00 in the morning. I went to the study and knocked on her door. I was about to knock on the door, but I heard my wife saying something unpleasant to a person in the room, "Don't take it off, my husband is back, you are still exciting, I left my husband to do with you..."
The voice was very low, but in the quiet night, I could still hear it clearly. My heart was like being cut by a knife. When I was about to push the door in, I found that it was locked, calmed down a little, and immediately returned to the room. I knew that if I broke in, maybe we would have no chance to continue living. I held it for a long time, and she probably realized that her behavior was detected by me, Because I hinted at her, she should know.
Although she is better now than before, I really don't know if she will do it again. I just want to give her a step. I don't know whether my idea is right or wrong. I also intend to be not only a good man, but also a good husband from now on.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
