Post Date December, 02 2023
In an ideal marriage, the man should be slightly older than the woman and have sexual experience. However, if the man is 10 years older than the normal marriage age, of course, he is no longer "very young.". When starting a marriage, a man in his 30s and a girl in his 20s have many advantages, but if you want to prolong your sexual life harmoniously, it is better to have a larger age difference.
Men's sexual ability is strongest between the ages of 20 and 30, and gradually declines after the age of 35. The peak value of a woman's sexual ability is around 30 to 40 years old. From the perspective of sexual harmony, it is most appropriate for a woman to be around 10 years older than a man. However, in real life, "female male" marriages are less common than "male female" marriages. "If a man marries a woman who is 10 years or more younger than himself, as time goes on, it often becomes increasingly difficult to satisfy his wife's sexual desires, which can affect marital relationships and lead to family conflicts.".
In the past, it was believed that husbands had an absolute responsibility to educate and guide their wives on sexual issues, and such guidance is still needed among today's young women. However, their role is not only limited to sexual life, but is more about daily life communication and necessary communication. Just like a couple with an age difference of 10 years, men and women born in different eras have different perspectives on thinking. Men may be more considerate of their families, while women are more self centered. Such a couple living together is bound to lead to men's endless tolerance for women, and when they can't bear it anymore, that is, when the marriage relationship breaks down.
Therefore, considering aspects such as sexual life and emotional communication, it seems better that the age difference between a wife and her husband should not be too large. When starting a marriage together, the sexual experiences of both parties are relatively close, and their thinking about issues is also relatively close. If both parties get married at a very young age, they can share the happiness that comes from expanding the range of personal sexual impressions and experiences. Therefore, finding a lover who is congenial to oneself and has a small age difference plays a crucial role in stabilizing the marriage relationship.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
