Post Date December, 03 2023
In order to find the key factors of a good marriage, Professor Brian Ogsgee of the School of Human and Community Development of Illinois State University in the United States led the team to carry out 35 surveys in several years, interviewed more than 12000 married people, and finally summarized the five key words of a good relationship between husband and wife. The happier the husband and wife, the more fully the five key words are used, they are:
Loyalty: credit should not only be given to your business partners, but also be the constant rule between you and your partner. This is not only reflected in the loyalty to the other party, but also let him (her) feel your constant support and encouragement; Keep promises, not only including the punctuality of dating in ordinary times, but also the vow of "living and dying, and speaking with your son".
Sharing: marriage belongs to two people, and the major and minor matters need not be divided too clearly. Housework, work, finance, childcare and other things can be done together.
Honesty: open the door with your partner, talk about your feelings, and encourage the other party to speak out. Because mutual silence or unilateral chatter will only reduce mutual understanding.
Positive: In daily communication and behavior, have a positive and optimistic attitude, and each other will get energy and happiness from these positive information. On the contrary, if your partner excitedly tells you a happy story, and you are not moved at all, or even indifferent to it, it will dampen the enthusiasm of the other party and greatly discount the positive interaction between husband and wife.
Love your wife and love your wife: Being able to accept and respect each other's relatives and friends is another manifestation of a happy marriage. In the event, don't forget to invite the other party's relatives and friends. Your sincere expression of love will undoubtedly make the other party love you more. The sincerity, trust and love of each other are also protecting the love between you and your partner. The longer the love lasts, the more mellow and fragrant it becomes.
