Post Date December, 03 2023
The so-called people afraid of entering the wrong line, women afraid of marrying the wrong man! Being able to marry a good husband is a very beautiful thing. Therefore, sisters, please keep your eyes open and look for a husband. Those who do not meet the requirements must not be taken! After "careful" observation, when a man can achieve the following 15 items, you can consider marrying him
1. The most important thing for a man is to be strong. Those men who have failed once and then complain, feel depressed, fall down and can't get up must not take it. A man should be able to give a woman a sense of security. If you find a husband who cannot take care of you, and often cries out about his misfortunes in front of you, making you also bear the pain that he can actually save, it is a very failure.
2. Love the house and the crow. "If a man truly loves you, he will love everything about you, including your bad habits, your friends, and your family... If he cannot tolerate certain defects in your friends or family, or is dissatisfied with the people around you, then as a smart woman, he should avoid meeting them as much as possible;"; "If he is so demanding that you cut off contact with them, don't hesitate to dump him."
3. Have a stable income. Love is very important, but it should be based on bread. "You don't necessarily need to be rich, but you need to have security in your life.". The so-called poor couple Pepsi Ai, if a man can't even pay for the baby's milk powder and starts worrying about the house payment for the next month at the beginning of this month, then you will only have to endure hardship with him.
4. Loyalty. Needless to say, I believe that all women do not want their husbands to come out of trouble.
5. Have a good grace. You must not find a petty man, even if he loves you. "But being jealous of just a few small things, whether you're socializing with your boss on business or gathering with friends who haven't been around for many years for personal reasons, a man who makes a scene after you go home or who sulks and ignores you for a long time is actually selfish.". Of course, he will say that he is jealous because he loves you, but don't forget, love someone and give her freedom. Sisters, don't be a housewife who is disguised as being left at home by men in various ways and can only do laundry and cooking. Not that housewives are bad, but as women in today's society, they need to have their own social circle, be independent and self-reliant, and never find men who cannot give themselves freedom.
6. Confidence. A man who exudes a sense of self-confidence can make women rely on him with confidence.
7. Masculinity. The term "masculinity" here does not refer to masculinity, as it is not recommended for men who do not do any typical household chores at home, stretch out their clothes and open their mouths to food. "Masculinity" refers to the ability to stand up for you without hesitation and truly protect you when you are bullied outside. For that matter alone, this man is worth considering committing for life.
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8. Good health. "It is not required that the man be strong and tall, but he must be healthy and healthy.". "A woman has some physical problems, which can be called flaccidity. If a man is sick all day, what do you say?"
9. Don't be a good baby. No one says filial piety is wrong, and filial men are very kind. However, in matters between husband and wife, they seek the opinions of others, have no own opinions, and can't move their lips and say, "Mom said, Mom said..." Such a good baby in front of a mother must not be taken. Remember, you are marrying a man, not the mother of that man.
10. Have a sense of responsibility. A man must have a sense of responsibility and dare to take responsibility for what he does, whether it's public or private. The kind of man who pushes on others whenever something happens is not only mean but also shameful.
11. Appearance matching. "He is not required to be handsome, but to look as if he doesn't cause public anger, you can't stand tall and graceful as a beautiful woman. Find a short, black and fat man beside you.".
12. Strong social skills. It doesn't mean that you must be active enough to laugh at people and hold your hands at the sight of them. It doesn't mean that you need to have some strong social skills, but you can't be shy. When going out for a social occasion together, he only knows to stand by and giggle, but can't find a topic to talk to your colleagues. A man who needs you to stand up for anything will make you look pale.
13. Have a peaceful heart. The world has become accustomed to measuring a person's value by their career success. In fact, a person's value lies in whether his existence is important to others. Even if that person cannot achieve the same brilliant achievements in his career as others, his ordinary life is as important to the people around him as it represents value. If a man cannot view his gains and losses with a peaceful heart, and is cynical all day long, blaming society for injustice, and blaming life for injustice, then being with him can also affect your mindset, predispose to extremes, cause enormous psychological pressure on you, and lead to an unhappy life.
14. Careful and interesting. He may not remember the birthdays of your uncle, uncle, aunt, and fourth aunt, but your birthday and wedding anniversary must be remembered. These two days are very important in marriage life. It's best to go out for a romantic moment and receive gifts.
15. No bad habits. You can smoke a little and drink a little wine, but not too much. You don't want to go back every day and face a drunken alcoholic with a strong smoke odor in his mouth.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
