Secretly rehearsing a date in my mind
The first condition for intimate contact is mutual goodwill. It's too presumptuous. Being slapped by a woman or pouring wine on the face in public doesn't feel good, does it?
Men are definitely sensitive and scheming old foxes when it comes to probing women's minds. When watching a movie, it is common to pretend to unintentionally touch the woman's hand, or to confirm her reaction by making slight physical contact with her knee close to her knee.
After confirmation, how to implement the action? Extending the appointment time is the top priority. Suggest going for dessert after dinner, taking a walk together, or taking the woman home. Once such an invitation is made, it can basically be concluded that he is a drunken man and his intention is not to drink.
Can we accept a kiss, can we ultimately commit ourselves to each other? A few nights before the date, they were already simulating the action plan from the night of the date to the final conclusion, seeking advice from their close friends, posting online, and discussing when and where to kiss. During a date, they rack their brains to consider the next step in their behavior, so they tend to be absent-minded when speaking and completely unaware of the taste of the food they chew. Even if the women around them have entered a state of heartwarming conversation, they often do not realize it.
Most afraid of being rejected for the first time
With the development of technology, we should have more time to fall in love, but the fact is that urban men and women not only need to work longer hours, but the distance between their place of residence and work is also getting farther and farther. Some surveys even suggest that the time allowed for them to act freely and freely every day is only 22. 3 minutes. Among them, women need to use 21. 2 minutes to determine what clothes to wear; Men need 18. Organize your hair and shave in 7 minutes. The true idle time is 1. 1 minute and 3. 6 minutes. Of course, the above statement is somewhat exaggerated, but you have to admit that dating is a time-consuming thing.
In order to improve the hit rate, 57% of men met their partner through friend introductions, 31% met at bars or parties, and 12% chose to date their work partners. Once a man wants to approach a woman, he often takes the initiative to invite her.
72% of men set their first date at a restaurant and then watch a movie; 27% of people go hiking or exercise, while the remaining 1% think of unexpected ways.
For men, the first date is very important, and there are not a few who hold the mentality of "getting it done once". If his first invitation is rejected, he will lose a lot of confidence and is likely to try his luck with a different woman. It's a big mistake to think that men are all leather candy and have indomitable beliefs. Not every man has strong nerves that can withstand 'destruction'. They are also afraid of setbacks, afraid of being ruthlessly rejected, and easily fall into a conditioned reflex to protect themselves.