Post Date April, 15 2023
Husband falls in love with a drinking girl
My husband was with a woman who was drinking with me in a hotel. They were very close. I went there many times to look for it and found that I smashed things there. On the night of the 8th of this month, my husband and I asked for 1000 yuan to go out and didn't go home. I went there to look for it at 9:00 the next day. He really stayed there for the night.
I was so angry that I wanted to call the woman. He wouldn't let me call. He asked the woman to go out. I had no choice but to take the woman's mobile phone back and call her home to tell her family about the situation. They asked me for a mobile phone now, but I wouldn't give it.
He hasn't said anything to me until now and hasn't come home at night. Every time I find him, I ask him how to deal with him.
That woman is very arrogant. She asked me to get a divorce. She wants to marry him. I said not to leave. You asked him to move to live with you and give me 2000 yuan a month for my family. I don't need him to go home.
He likes playing mahjong. He goes there until 12:00 and doesn't come back until 3:00 or 4:00. Sometimes he deceives me into playing all night long. How can I believe that he plays all night long.
In good times, I told him that we have children and should do a good job in the economy to make the children live a good life. He said that the woman was willing to follow him without paying her.
The year before last, I came home at more than 12 o'clock in the evening and told me to break up with the woman. I told me not to talk about it later. I was together again a few days later. Last December, I asked me for 3000 yuan to return it to her, and said I would break up with her. I owed her 3000 yuan. In the morning, I said I didn't give it to him. I called him to come home for dinner at dinner. He said to eat outside, and I asked his brother to call him to try to find out where he was again.
Dogs can't eat shit! I'm so angry. What should I do!
Reply:
Hello, friend. After reading your story, I always think your efforts are in vain. Why? Because your husband has been completely confused by the mistress, your husband has no self-control at all. Your husband said that the mistress didn't want money, so he could have her and play with her for a long time. However, I think the third doesn't want money. It's not your husband playing with her, but the third plays with your husband's body again. I really feel sad for your husband.
Your husband is fond of gambling. This is already an unforgivable thing. Now he is cheating and sleeping with other women. What do you think of him? Is there any position left. In my opinion, in his eyes, you are a slave who helps him have children and do housework. You have no dignity at all. With such a man, it's needless to say, I think we can all feel your pain.
Maybe you also have your helplessness. You can't give up this family and this man for the sake of children. But does this man think about this family again? I think what he thinks most is how to get involved with the third in the evening. His mind has been completely eroded by the third's body.
To be a junior, there are only two ideas, one is for money, the other is for men's body.
For the money, the third child will not easily reveal their own affairs, and they will not directly challenge the original partner. As long as the man gives it to her, everything will be OK, regardless of whether the man has another fourth, fifth, and so on.
As the junior three of men, they generally fall in love with this man, regardless of the poverty or wealth, they want to be with this man wholeheartedly. Married men like this mistress best because they can occupy this woman all night without spending money. They can do whatever they want. Married men think they are playing with such mistresses, but they are not. Instead, such mistresses are playing with these married men all night.
Your husband is hopeless. You have too much trust in him. You have cheated you and broken up with her again and again. In fact, you also expect him to break up with her, but it is not so simple, because your husband can taste the sweetness of that mistress. The mistress uses all kinds of soft words to seduce your husband. In this case, you must make a big move to save your husband and the family. Don't use such measures as persuasion, because he will not listen to them.
If a man who is played by a third party wants to stop at the precipice, unless the third party no longer likes the man and wants to make a woman no longer a man, unless the man cheats, betrays and hurts the woman.
My friend, I wish you happiness and try to save your husband.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
