Post Date December, 03 2023
After marriage, men and women must live together until old age. During this long journey, there must be some harmful factors that interfere with the harmonious coexistence of husband and wife. Therefore, if we want to maintain a harmonious life, we must reasonably solve the adverse problems.
Create archives for your husband's "bad" records
Swallow summarized the reasons for the frequent quarrels during her two years of marriage and found that her memory was really poor! Obviously, my husband has a lot of faults, but when they bicker, he can casually tell me a lot of problems with Swallow. However, Swallow can't recall his "criminal record", and as a result, he only listens to his criticism. After experiencing "humiliation" several times, Swallow specially prepared a diary to record her husband's "crimes": getting drunk and returning late on a certain day, forgetting to send flowers and gifts on a memorial day, and actually playing cards with several gambling friends under the pretext of working overtime... This is called not fighting unprepared battles. With this magic weapon, Swallow only needs to unhurriedly turn over this book when quarreling again, and her husband will be dumbfounded!
Summary: As the saying goes, a good memory is not as good as a bad pen. It is recommended that those who often have "poor reasoning" when arguing, do not be lazy, build a file for the other party, and settle accounts easily after autumn Ten Rules for Couples to Reach the End of Love
Be good at raising a charming wife
Qiao Qiao is the youngest in his family, and he has an innate ability to act coquettishly. After marrying A Feng, her "charm" has increased unabated. It's a good temper to catch up with A Feng, and meet all reasonable and unreasonable demands of Qiao Qiao unconditionally. Let's say that this summer, the stove in Nanjing is about to change into an oven, but Qiao Qiao's family cannot turn on the air conditioner. Because Qiao Qiao gets sick when he blows on the air conditioner, the air conditioner has become a decoration since he bought it. Qiao Qiao and A Feng are even hotter, but they still have to serve their wives. At night, Qiao Qiao couldn't sleep because of the noise of the fan, and A Feng was surprised to find the big cattail fan at the bottom of her box and fan it for her for half the night! A friend jokes that A Feng is too "filial", but A Feng has no choice but to say, "Who makes my wife act spoiled? If I make her unhappy for a moment, I will suffer all day long.".
Summary: In the art of war, there is a great plan to "subdue the enemy without fighting". Attention, female compatriots, even if he is a steel refiner, we can turn him into a finger twister. Of course, the premise is that he has to have a heart that cherishes fragrance and cherishes jade.
Occasionally "back of ear"
Aunt Chen loves to nag and enters menopause before she is 45 years old. She often nags her sons and daughters with golden stars in their eyes, treating her mother as the Tang Monk in "Da Hua Xi You". Of course, the person who suffered the most was Lao Chen. Aunt Chen has the ability to nag him so hard that she can't find him. As time went on, Old Chen also "groped" out a set of experiences, that is, "If you pass through a myriad of flowers, the leaves will not touch you.". No matter how Aunt Chen "spits lotus flowers", Old Chen only regards it as background music, what should I do? Just intermittently cooperate with an approved expression and everything will be OK!
Summary: It is said that women who are older tend to nag and are related to their physical structure. It is unlikely that men will want to have a clean conscience. However, adopting Lao Chen's ostrich policy is not undesirable. The most crucial thing is to be afraid of her suddenly asking, "Where did I just say?"
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
