A man has several obstacles in his life, and at different ages, he will face different things. Each obstacle has its own problems to face and needs to be overcome one by one. What obstacles do men need to face? Let's take a look together!
1.11-13 years old
This is a very important obstacle in a man's life, because from this obstacle, a boy has truly transformed into a man! During this period, men will experience a significant increase in height and their voices will begin to change. More development has been achieved in all aspects! During this period, more guidance from parents is needed. As life mentors, parents should communicate with their children more to alleviate their confusion and troubles!
2.18 years old
During this period, men's overall vitality and muscle strength increase significantly, and they will secrete more testosterone! So, this period is exactly a period of energy. But during this period, many boys have to study and take the college entrance exam. Therefore, their energy is not well released and is relatively suppressed. Over time, it will cause great psychological harm. During this period, parents need to encourage their children to exercise more while studying and take them out for more walks when they have time. Let them unleash their energy, only in this way can they better immerse themselves in learning!
3.21 years old
This time is usually the first step for boys to enter society. They began to be exposed to various rules in society and learned how to survive and get along with people in society! At this point, what they need is not more help, but survival skills. Parents should not treat their children like children anymore. They need to bear the joys and sorrows of life on their own! Complete psychological weaning! During this period, parents should not actively provide help, give more positive energy to their children, encourage them more, communicate with them, and provide some guidance. The effect is often the best!
4.29 years old
During this period, the average man had his own family. A person in love, one or a few children! Perhaps some men started their families earlier, so they went through this stage earlier! This stage is a stage of differentiation. In terms of career, the so-called "thirty year old" can be said to be a period of career growth, and generally large businesses are created during this stage. Of course, not everyone will create a career, and some men choose a stable job, each with its pros and cons, without much explanation. However, don't neglect your family just because of work. Home is always your safe haven. During this period, men need to take on more family responsibilities and give all their love to their families. And less comparison, mentality needs to be more mature!
5.40 years old
During this period, men should not feel energetic. Although there is a saying that 'men have forty-one flowers,' you need to face yourself seriously and make sure to put health issues on the agenda! Men at this stage are becoming more mature psychologically and in a relatively good state of career. But it is accompanied by a decline in physical condition! Many men begin to gain weight at this stage! And reduced my exercise! The editor suggests that during this period, children begin to grow up! Taking children out for more walks not only enhances relationships but also exercises the body. More exercise, more companionship with family, and an annual physical examination are the most important things at this stage!
6.55 years old
At this stage, as our saying goes, 'You can't do it if you don't accept old age!' At this stage, start trying to let go of some things! If you have a company, hand it over to someone you trust, let go of your power, go for a walk, and exercise your body! The important thing is to cultivate our next generation and give them more opportunities to take over their careers and families!
7.65 years old
Generally speaking, by the age of 60, it's time to retire. Many people who didn't pay attention to their health when they were young will regret it very much during this period! Youth is better than learning, and middle age is better than wealth! As we get older, we start to compare ourselves to our bodies. Sometimes you will find that no matter how much wealth you have when you are young, it is of no use reaching this age group! What is more important when young is to realize one's life value and prove one's role! Those with money should do more public welfare activities and help others more! Don't worry too much about your children, they will have their own blessings! No matter how much you leave behind for your child, if they can't do it, it's still useless. It's better for them to rise up and build their own future! Good child, you don't have to worry, he will surpass the blue and surpass the blue! Therefore, looking at everything and living happily through old age seems to be the best outcome!
8. On the deathbed
A lifetime passes in the blink of an eye. How many things does a man have to go through to be called a "man"? When I get old, I sit in a rocking chair and reminisce with my spouse about the past. I wonder if there's a faint smile on my lips when I think about the achievements I've made in the past! In this life, men will inevitably bear many responsibilities, and each person's life will also have such and such stories. When you are old and your hair is white, sitting in a rocking chair feels like you've wasted your life, that's enough!