Post Date April, 15 2023
Many people think that it seems natural for men to find "female confidante". Nowadays, urban women derive a word from "female confidante" - "female confidante". They think that "men can have female confidante, why can't women have female confidante"?
"Blue face confidant" makes me warm and concerned, but I will not feel wrong
The new emotional model of the blue face confidant man
When Xiao Qing is in love with her boyfriend, she often doesn't go to her good girlfriend, but only to her male friend Xiao Peng. She feels that she has known Xiaopeng for a longer time than her boyfriend. Xiaopeng knows her, and their conversation can be free from taboos. Moreover, Xiaopeng often helps her analyze problems from a man's point of view, which often turns the conflict between her and her boyfriend into friendship and intimacy. This is what her girlfriend and other ordinary boyfriends cannot do. But she was sure that there was no love between her and Xiaopeng, but there was more attachment and mutual affection between her and her friends. She would not have a burden to share her troubles with him. She had a kind of warmth and concern, but did not have to worry about the dislocation of feelings. She called Xiaopeng her "blue confidant" and a lifelong friendship.
For couples who have close confidants of the opposite sex, it is important to grasp the scale
For a long time, I couldn't find her when I called her home before eleven o'clock in the evening. Almost every night when I call her, I can always hear the loud music of the dance hall when I call back. Miss Qiu has a lot of friends, and they are all men. She also said that she doesn't like playing with her girlfriend.
Miss Qiu likes to be noticed by men. Compared with going home to face a man, this kind of occasion is really exciting. However, she was extremely sober. She said that if she had to choose one hundred times more, she would still choose the present husband. Only he could give her a sense of security and give her a sense of home.
"Why should women be so passive? My husband can make girlfriends and I can also make boyfriends. To be honest, I really have such a few '' '' blue confidants' ', which are of course very innocent and easy to talk about. So I often come and go, often find a place to drink tea and chat, and really have a new feeling that the atmosphere at home can't produce. In short, I should compare my friendship with these men with that of other women and my husband If you put your friends together, there is no need to be nervous about yourself. "Miss Qiu speaks quickly.
Both sides have heterosexual friends, which seems to be even. However, Miss Qiu's husband reacted strongly to his wife's "blue confidant". Miss Qiu's husband said, "Women are born to fantasize. When they are married, they expect other men to take care of you and listen to you patiently. How can this be possible?" In Miss Qiu's husband's opinion, men are willing to be good friends with women, or the woman is very capable and can be used; Either there is an attempt at her, whether it is to find some emotional warmth or to relieve boredom, it always seems abnormal.
The appearance of heterosexual friends of both husband and wife may be either "wolf" or "sheep". Marriage is the art of reconciliation. Men and women who are "cooks" have little self-consciousness. It is important to grasp the scale.
"Blue face confidant" is a new model of interpreting healthy feelings
People live in this big society by all kinds of feelings. Some people once called the feelings between lovers and friends "the fourth kind of feelings", and some people once enthusiastically discussed "whether there are other emotional factors between men and women besides love". In fact, compared with the past, the door of the modern family has gradually opened to the changing society. Men and women may need all-round emotional care. There may be irreplaceable elements between these kinds of feelings. The emergence of the title "blue confidant" indicates that people are constantly deducing and distinguishing various new emotional models. However, as long as such feelings are real, healthy and beautiful, and do not hurt each other, it may be a good thing for people to be able to exchange views and face with each other frankly, and be loved by various feelings instead of being troubled.
