After getting pregnant, my husband showed great affection for me and refused to let me go to work. He also went to a domestic service company with me to choose a nanny. I didn't like an elderly aunt to be a nanny, so I chose a young girl because I thought everyone was young, quick to do things, and knew how to look at people, so I chose her as a nanny.
In the first few months since the nanny arrived, she has kept the house clean and never made me angry. The food she cooks is also very delicious. I asked her to learn how to cook on TV, and she remembered it immediately after watching it. My husband also likes this nanny very much and often jokes with her. I sometimes give my husband a cautious look, and when he sees me unhappy, he immediately stays away from the nanny.
During my pregnancy, she told me a lot about prenatal and postpartum matters, and everything she said was very specific, which helped me give birth with peace of mind. Don't worry or be nervous. I have been thinking about one thing all along, which is that during the past few months of pregnancy, I was unable to sleep with my husband. Whenever he wanted it, he always solved it himself. I always feel that I owe my husband a debt, so I can only care more about him in my daily life.
From pregnancy to childbirth, my husband has always been very concerned about me and has not committed any lifestyle issues, which makes me very happy. After giving birth, the nanny was busy taking care of the child for me, washing diapers and sleeping with the child. She was also tired and had a sore back after a day. After all, taking care of the child is not an easy task. The child is just a baby and can't withstand any negligence.
My husband loves his children immensely. Sometimes he stays at home with me and the children for a whole day without going to work. The nanny takes care of the children professionally and always corrects my husband hand in hand on how to hold the child correctly, exchanging parenting experiences with him.
In summer, the weather is hot and the child cannot blow the air conditioning. In order to facilitate taking care of the child, the nanny simply wears a vest to take care of the child. Her underwear is often exposed by the children. Every time my husband looks at the baby in front of the nanny, I find that he unconsciously looks at the nanny's breasts, which makes me a bit unhappy. However, considering that the nanny is also trying to take care of the child, and my husband has always been very polite during my pregnancy, my wild thoughts quickly dissipated.
But I'm good. Once, the nanny was breastfeeding a child in the living room, and I was tidying up the child's diapers and clothes in the bedroom. My husband was teasing the child while he reached out to the nanny's chest and casually touched it. He thought I couldn't see it in the bedroom, but he saw it through the crack in the door. When the husband touched the nanny's chest, the nanny immediately became nervous and intentionally refused, but the husband continued to touch her indiscriminately.
I hurried out of the bedroom, called my husband in, and closed the bedroom door. I asked my husband what he had done to the nanny just now. He refused to admit the fact of breast touching and even made an excuse that he was discussing the correct method of breastfeeding with the nanny. This excuse is too absurd.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)