We know too little about these lecherous men. In fact, the more lecherous a man is, the less seed he has. The more you fear him, the more he becomes. As long as women become tough, lecherous men will stay away. Let's take a look together, the reason behind men's lust - only because of sexual inferiority!
People have heard a lot about 'inferiority complex', but 'sexual inferiority complex' is still a new term.
Nowadays, many men and women suffer from physiological illnesses, such as inability to have a normal erection or premature ejaculation, which makes men unable to lift their heads. In the incomprehension and ridicule of their sexual partners, men also have a sense of inferiority towards sex from the bottom of their hearts.
Men who harbor a sense of inferiority in terms of sexuality belong to those with some psychological problems, so there may be some extreme manifestations in life. Due to his inner sexual inferiority, he will show his strong side in real-life relationships between men and women, making people feel strong and strong, in order to compensate for his inner inferiority.
Men with inferiority complex tend to constantly invite women and, in a semi joking manner, boast about their lascivious tendencies while deliberately showing off how they like women; Or he will always have ambiguous and ambiguous eyes in his daily interactions, speaking ambiguous words, in order to shape his image as a lascivious man. These men are like paper tigers who are strong on the outside but weak on the inside. Behind his ambiguous words and seemingly fierce appearance, it is difficult to conceal his inner sexual inferiority.
In addition to the reason of sexual inferiority, there are other factors in men's lust, such as the Oedipus complex in men's hearts. Starting from the 1980s, many children born in the 1980s are only children, and their parents are full of endless love for them, especially mothers who dote on their sons, not necessarily causing them any hardship or injustice. Under the love and protection of their mothers, many sons have grown up, but their hearts have not been able to grow up. They have a strong Oedipus complex and a tendency to love siblings.
Men with Oedipus complex lack assertiveness and independence. They will be timid before doing things. Of course, they also lack independent assertiveness and drive in sexual life. He harbors a sense of terror towards women and does not know how to maintain a moderate level of interaction with them. His attitude and interest towards women have never been positive. Therefore, he needs to find an older sister to guide him, so that he can have a sense of security and stability in his heart.
Therefore, behind men's lechery, there is a strong Oedipus complex in addition to sexual inferiority. The Oedipus complex makes them unable to grow up, and their hearts are not really strong. Naturally, they need to weave a camouflage coat for themselves.
Whether you admit it or not, there are many men around us who appear lascivious but have extreme sexual inferiority complex at heart. If your husband or boyfriend is such an unfortunate member, what should we do as their closest partners?
Some women hold this type of man in awe and hastily choose to break up and end up looking for their own true happiness. This kind of love that retreats despite difficulties is not considered true love. In fact, men's sexual inferiority complex can be overcome, as long as you guide them with some methods.
Do not abandon: You should know that your abandonment will become the fundamental reason for men to become even worse. Men themselves are inherently inferiority complex, and when they see their closest people leave them, they will completely abandon themselves and never recover. At this time, the companionship and encouragement of family members are particularly important!
Encouragement: In bed life, if he has some problems, as his sexual partner, you must not look down on him or mock him, this is nothing more than throwing salt on his wound! Encourage him more, change some tricks to let him experience a different sense of freshness, stimulate his desire, be considerate of him more, guide him more, he will definitely be able to step out of sexual inferiority, give you an excited night, experience the joy of orgasm.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)