Post Date December, 02 2023
When I was five months pregnant, I found that my husband was always absent-minded. Sure enough, the phone call from the third child came soon. I was angry and asked if my husband had offended a woman. At first, I didn't admit that I knew each other. Later, when I lost my temper, I told them about their dog men and women! The third asked my husband to go with her now. He said it was impossible, told her not to destroy our family, and said it was just playing with her! But why didn't he clean his mouth when he went out to steal? Now let that woman hurt me!
I am unstable now. I really don't know if I can give birth to this child. And I had an affair before I was pregnant. Because I knew I was pregnant soon after it happened, so it didn't make a big deal. I forgive him! This time, I really want to kill the child, but the child seems to feel my mind and keep moving. I really can't bear it... When we go home, I fight with my husband, which means I want to kill the child! He cried and said no, his stomach was so big that he told me to believe him and he would prove it to me. I insisted on not having children. My husband said that if I didn't want this child, he would kill that woman, and then ran out impulsively! I was worried about what was going on, so I called my husband. He said that he would not do anything illegal, but just give the Trinity some color. He also said that he had warned the Trinity not to intervene in our family! I'm upset now. I don't know whether to trust him.
Ms. Chen:
Your husband seems to be a recidivist. He can't control himself, and he is also full of nonsense. You are a naive and kind-hearted woman. Your innocence and kindness give him too much sense of security, because his every toss and turn will eventually win your forgiveness, and even you will sympathize with his childish behavior. That is why his bad habits are hard to change, because the cost of making mistakes is too low.
You should give him a sense of crisis everywhere. Don't tie all your life into marriage. You should have your own pursuit of life outside the siege. In addition, always remind him that a pregnant woman can't stand the intense mental stimulation, otherwise all the consequences will be borne by him. You can even use the time of pregnancy to reform him, but the child is innocent. You should make good use of your husband's weakness. He is sincere to you, but at the same time, he is a bad man who needs someone to take care of, otherwise, one day he will lose heart.
