1. The relationship between husband and wife is sincere.
Actually, this reason is a bit farfetched. Don't believe the crocodile tears of an extramarital man. They will make a mess of their marital life, in order to gain sympathy and understanding. In fact, many men, despite having a happy marriage and family, tend to make waves on the ground. So women should never suffer from infantile diseases, thinking that having an affair will only lead to encountering someone else's husband, while their own husband is an insulator.
2. Insufficient self conditions.
Affair is a luxury consumption, and not every married man has enough capital and charm to make other women willing to be a third party. Even if mediocre men are salivating, they can only "sit still on high mountains and aspire to it". They are not unwilling, they just cannot. Whenever a heavenly rooster or dog ascends to heaven, it will definitely be "expensive and easy to make friends, rich and easy to marry". The so-called "honest men" often belong to this category.
3. There is a thief's heart, but there is no thief's courage.
Encountering is an "emerald" in Swiss banks, like Zeta Jones in "The Trap of the Sky". No one dares to steal the sky and change the pillars unless they are brave and wise. Those who want to have an affair, thinking of its serious consequences - family breakdown, divorce, lost future, infamous The opportunity cost is too large, so we have to flinch from it. Most rational men belong to this category.
4. Disdainful of trouble.
Encountering is a complex and systematic project that encompasses all aspects of economy, politics, and culture. There is no need for lies and deceit. Having an affair is like engaging in diplomacy. To balance things, one must play seamlessly, please both sides, and be versatile. Every day is like a war, and one's personal skills and time are limited. Those with fragile hearts cannot bear it, and it is extremely troublesome. It's better to just muddle through. Lazy men often belong to this category.
5. Opportunities are not seized.
An affair is like winning a lottery, it can happen but not be sought. Even if you have time, energy, money, and charm, you need to be mature and seize the right moment. Perhaps you are henpecked and lack freedom, perhaps you have not met the right and suitable partner. If the goddess of extramarital affairs does not favor you, do not secretly grieve. The so-called "Feng Tang Yi Lao, Li Guang difficult to seal The ancients had many talented people who did not meet, and there were not many more.
6. Emotional roughness.
Encountering is a life story of the upper class, and it is also a matter of slow work and meticulous work. Only those who come from noble backgrounds and have delicate thoughts will have this spiritual appeal. Otherwise, you won't be able to eat three meals a day, so why bother to have an affair? A man with rough emotions is tired of coaxing a woman, how can he spare time to fight other women? It's better to have a drink with my buddies and play cards to have a good time!
7. The smallpox complex.
An affair is like having smallpox, but if it hasn't happened before, there is always a risk of smallpox. And once it's gone, you have antibodies and no longer suffer from this disease. Encountering is a seemingly beautiful movie, but in reality, the logic is chaotic, the content is divided, and the nerves are hysterical. So people who have had an affair understand the true meaning of this. However, the survival time of this antibody varies from person to person. Some people "forget the pain after healing the scar", while others "fear the well rope for ten years after being bitten by a snake