The man mistakenly thought that he could send the mistress away with money, and the result was

Q:

How did I find out that my husband had an affair? The third girl took a picture of my husband sleeping on her bed and sent it directly to me through my husband's WeChat. In the picture, she also made a victory gesture with her hand. Behind the gesture, my husband was lying.

My husband also quibbled and said that I slandered him. He was even more angry than me. He had been married for so long, but his wife didn't believe him. He always suspected him with this mentality. He didn't work hard outside for the sake of his family. He gave customers wine to accompany him with gastritis. He said what he did this for, not for the sake of our family.

Teacher, really, if it weren't for that picture, I would have been moved by him. There have been many clues before, almost always like this. When I think a little in that direction, he swears that it is absolutely impossible, and often I feel guilty and feel that I should not blame him.

Really, I was almost stopped by his appearance again. Believe him, I showed him his mobile phone, and he immediately looked like someone had taken his teeth and lips, and could not say a word of refutation. Finally, I just said: You are insane. I just want to know how he intends to deal with this matter?

Teacher, I chose him only after we knew each other. He thinks for me everywhere and takes care of me very much. So many times, so many small details, I can't see selectively. I also understand that his career needs entertainment, and some marginalized things are not what I can understand by ordinary office workers. Society is a dye vat, but I think my husband will not be stained.

He quarreled with me with a straight face. His posture was almost like fighting with me. I was the victim, teacher. How could he be so unreasonable. I don't remember what the noise was, so I said angrily, "I have evidence in my hand! Then the court will sue you! Let you clean out!" So he grabbed my mobile phone from the coffee table without saying a word. I was not as tall as him, and I was not as strong as him, so he was very brutal. In this way, he directly deleted and unloaded my entire WeChat software. Teachers who have used Apple phones know that unloading a software is really a matter of pressing for a few seconds. At that time, I really felt that I could not imagine him to be such a person, arrogant and brutal. People who have lived together for so many years have realized that he should have such a side.

He said you have no evidence. Why do you say I have an affair! At that time, I had no way to respond. The whole person collapsed completely with anger and fear. I could not help crying and wailing. All my pain was going to break through my body. At that time, I had the idea of suicide. Why are I still alive? Why are you still alive?

I also want to thank you, teacher. I only saw your case as a story before. I knew that I needed your help so much. Life is really beyond your expectation. I can only ask for help. The third is cunning and insidious. He sent a photo without exposing himself, but it has turned my home upside down. After I told the teacher about the situation, because my husband's WeChat chat records are basically empty, just a few group messages. And now, he is strictly guarded and forbids me to use his mobile phone. I have no way to know who the opponent is. Who is the shameless one who destroys others' families?

I didn't have a clue. I was the teacher of Weiqing, who gave me some handling skills after more than two hours of consultation. According to the teacher's guidance, I recorded the conversation between my husband and me, and got the recording of his indirect confession of cheating. He said, "Don't tell me about WeChat photos. It's also your fault that I cheated. Besides, the photos are gone.".

Moreover, the teacher said that the third was really upset. She sent me a message with her husband's WeChat again. If she insulted me, I took a careful screenshot this time and saved many backups. But my husband is probably making trouble with the third, and he is tired of her pestering. In recent days, his attitude has begun to ease. He discussed with me whether to send the third at one time with the money.

I didn't tell him that I had turned to you for help. I thought in my heart that as long as I could solve this problem, I could do anything. So my husband said a number. Although it's quite a lot, I think it's acceptable to let my family return to its original shape and let Xiao San Bie haunt our family like a ghost, but! The answer is! The third took the money, but she wanted it!!

If you don't agree to the junior three's terms, she will... Teacher, I'm so aggrieved. Why should I go through this? I hate this man. He was fooled into taking some bad photos and videos. He had weapons in his hand. What should I do? Angry and sad

A:

Don't worry, our team has arrived in your city to help you. In addition, if there is any change in the situation, you should first communicate with our teacher and then deal with it. For example, this time, my husband suddenly put forward the strategy of using money to balance the junior, but the fact is that money will never come back, and things still remain unsolved, even worse.

There have been such cases before. The man colluded with the mistress. The man performed repentance and reform in front of his wife, and then asked his wife for a large amount of money, plus the property that he had secretly transferred from the past to the ordinary time. After a year, when the man sued for divorce, the wife found that he had not left her any money, and had not broken up with the mistress at all. It was always two people in secret, Jointly emptied their original marital property.

You should learn to protect yourself. After a man's cheating, not only his behavior is unfaithful, but also his mind will change. Only by separating the third child can he slowly return to the right track of your marriage.