Post Date December, 03 2023
Women don't like men's triviality. Isn't it a manifestation of a traditional idea that women subconsciously rely on men? In other words, when women see men's triviality, it is actually a kind of appearance, and there is still a traditional consciousness of women in their bones: relying on men.
Men's triviality is a man's big problem.
One day, at the bus stop, I heard two middle-aged women talking about their husbands. One of them said, "My mother-in-law, like a woman, is always nagging all day long.".
I have a friend's wife who is also most annoyed by her husband's triviality. The wife bought a pair of shoes for the child. When he saw it was small, he said how not to buy a bigger one. The child's feet grow the fastest, so the shoes should be bigger, Yunyun. The wife picked the celery and pinched all the celery leaves in order to save trouble. He would say next to her that the celery leaves are nutritious. It's a pity to pinch them, Yunyun. My wife pointed at his nose in front of him and said, "If you focus on doing big things and make more money for me, let's drive a car and go out to a restaurant. Isn't everything all right?"?
This is right and forceful. If I don't talk about her husband, I will be speechless even when I'm watching. From this point of view, women don't like men's trivial things. Isn't it a manifestation of a traditional idea that women rely on men subconsciously? In other words, when women see men's triviality, it is actually a kind of appearance, and there is still a traditional consciousness of women in their bones: relying on men.
Of course, men should do great things. This is the tone set by tradition for men, so men cannot and should not be trivial. However, how many big things can a man do when he comes home? Therefore, he can only focus on domestic matters, unless he doesn't love the man who doesn't manage the house at all. Anyone who cares more about home will always say something and do something. If this is trivial, I think the wife can take an attitude of understanding. Isn't it that men and women are equal, and modern men should also care about family? Now that a man has done it, he should say something.
In addition, it is also necessary to have opportunities to do big business. Sometimes it is impossible to ask for it. I have a friend who graduated from the Department of Economics and Management of a famous university. In today's society, he is definitely a hot talent. However, his career is flat. It is said that their units are full of positions. It is not his turn to take any seat for a while. However, without a position, no matter how much you have an idea, you are also subject to others, so you can't fully play it. Later, he ran out to do business again, took a chance and asked his wife for 20000 yuan. My wife once said, "Anyone who has the ability to borrow chicken to lay eggs. Have you put the capital into it like this?"? Well, a man's big business can't be done again. It is the man who was later criticized by his wife as trivial. Who is to blame?
After the World Women's Conference, Chinese women probably understood at least one thing: in China, the number of women employed should not be less than that in western developed countries. Therefore, in China, women and professional women can basically draw equal signs. The vast majority of Chinese women enter the society and enter the profession, which means that the vast majority of Chinese men may enter the family and enter the trivial household chores. Chinese women cannot go home to be housewives, and Chinese women cannot take care of all the trivial things. Since you throw the trivial things to men, and men do not complain when accepting the trivial things, then please treat men as long as they are not too trivial, Give some understanding and tolerance!
