Post Date December, 03 2023
In ancient times, "sissy" was synonymous with eunuchs, but now there is no eunuch, how can there be "sissy"? In fact, this is mainly caused by psychological reasons. Generally, many people have developed such habits since childhood. So what is it? Let's take a look at it!
On the surface, some boys don't like their father. In fact, they just express their strong demand for father's love in a rebellious way, which is called "father's hunger and thirst" in psychology.
The competition in modern society is increasingly fierce. Most fathers have fewer opportunities to contact with their children because of their work relationship. During the growth process from infancy to adolescence, boys are often surrounded by their mothers and female teachers. Masculinity has become a scarce element in their personality construction, and excessive femininity has become the hallmark weakness of modern boys.
In fact, children like caring, considerate, amiable, caring and understanding fathers.
A good father is not only the child's protector, but also the child's confidant; He not only respects the initiative and independence of children, but also gives necessary education and guidance. A good father is approachable and tolerant. The father's open-minded, open-minded, sincere and generous can give children a good chance to talk. When they tell their father all their troubles, they will feel that the father's broad chest is so warm, comfortable and safe, and even inspire the confidence and courage of children's life.
Children are most eager for their father to truly enter their hearts and understand their thoughts, interests, emotions and sorrows, so as to understand and support their choices and pursuits. He not only cares about the child's physical condition, academic performance, whether he can enter a key middle school or university, but also has a sufficient understanding of the child's psychology, thoughts and personality, and can consciously help him overcome his shortcomings during the child's growth process.
(Intern editor: Huang Qianyi)
