Our nanny, A Fang, was invited from his hometown in August last year. Before that, her performance has been very good. My brother's son was also sent to me for her to bring with him. He is very honest, works very carefully, and cooks good dishes. To tell you the truth, if I didn't know that she was my husband's first girlfriend the day before yesterday, I might have sworn sister to her.
A few days ago, my husband's cousin sent his son to Xi'an to go to university, and I found this amazing secret from him. At that time, my husband and A Fang went to the same school for technical secondary school. His cousin apprenticed there. The three of them were best friends. Later, because the woman's family had a very serious medical history, her father-in-law did not agree with them. Later, my husband came to Xi'an alone and met me. I heard from my husband that they had never been together for so many years.
Only in 2009, when their secondary school classmates gathered, his classmates said that Ah Fang was living a very bad life. His husband was addicted to gambling and divorced less than three years after marriage. Later, his father and two brothers died of illness one after another, leaving her mother and two nephews and nieces to take care of all by herself.
So, at the end of the New Year at the beginning of last year, my husband found a job doing statistics for a small enterprise in the suburb of Xi'an, and so on until June. The enterprise was in a bad business, and then it was laid off, so Fang lost his job. It was in this case that my husband thought of arranging Ah Fang as a babysitter in his own home.
Because she needed money very much, and the income as a nanny was also very good. At that time, our business encountered problems in customs declaration, and I couldn't care about home at all. So my husband asked for my consent to hire a nanny from my hometown. But he never told me that they were classmates before, let alone first lovers.
I don't know if my husband will hide anything from me, but I feel it is hard to believe him. A good female friend of mine said that my husband must have a lot of things to hide from me. Otherwise, if he really wants to help her, there are many ways to do it. Because our own business needs people for a long time, and it must be ill intentioned to arrange our first girlfriend at home.
I'm so sad now and I can't do my job well. What should I do? Will he do a lot of things to me? What should I do with Ah Fang? It's really unexpected that my husband will do this. I don't know if he is out of kindness or other reasons. Now I really don't know what to do.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)