The "bad" of bad men nowadays is not as obvious and clear as the "bad" of traditional bad men. They are coated with a layer of beautiful and fragrant substances such as roses and chocolate, and they often portray themselves as new good men. It is easy to confuse the eyes and even the soul of some women, and recognizing them requires not only a wise heart and sharp eyes, but also time. They are like chronic viruses lurking in your body, which you may not be aware of for a long time, but when it attacks, you are helpless.
1、 I am not fighting so desperately for you and this family
If a man uses appropriate expressions when saying this, his emotional level will not be inferior to any Qiongyao film, but you should not be in a hurry to burst into tears. Men strive first for themselves - to have the opportunity to eat, drink, and play like successful men around them, which is the continuous driving force of men's struggle. The purpose of a man saying this is to avoid household chores, find excuses for not returning home at night, and make you give up your career and become the woman behind him wholeheartedly. Whether he can fulfill his promise after success depends entirely on his conscience. A person with a good conscience can still give you luxury, but don't expect his love for you to continue; A person with a bad conscience, get a divorce. He won't miss you as a family nanny. Nowadays, how many wealthy families complain about their wives!
2、 I'm too busy to call you
What is this man really doing? Why hasn't he even made a phone call all day? "If faced with the above situation, most women would think," Yes, he really wants to hear my voice, but because he's busy with work, he didn't call me. "In this way, the woman forgives those men with her broad-minded heart like the Pacific Ocean. Some women may even think, 'He must be very tired without even time to make phone calls! I must treat him better in the future.'.
But if, as women think, men can't wait to hear her voice, and even go crazy if they don't call, wouldn't they still have time to call their girlfriends because they're too busy with work? In fact, using work as an excuse not to call indicates that he is no longer interested in his girlfriend. As long as a man likes a woman, he will keep making phone calls or sending messages to her, and even a man who is not good at expressing himself is the same.
3、 I am promiscuous but not indecent
New bad men believe that being able to flirt with the beautiful women in the office, engage in one or two "spiritual relationships," have three or two female confidants, or engage in a bunch of nonsense with a bad old man who goes by the pseudonym XX Baby online late at night, all of which have nothing to do with pornography. This is still the capital they love to talk about and prove their charm. However, men who claim to be promiscuous will inevitably end up with the most vulgar ending - sleeping with a woman.
4、 I like the new but not the old
The new bad man yearns for and pursues the thrilling thrills of extramarital affairs, sexual encounters, and one night stands. At first, he still follows the game rules of "fluttering flags outside, keeping the red flag at home". This is like smoking marijuana, once addicted, unable to stop. When indulging in the enjoyment of sound, sex, and body, he should bear the moral and responsibility, which has already been thrown away, disgusted or even abandoned, but it is only a matter of time.
5、 I am always loyal to love and marriage
Nowadays, finding an absolutely loyal man is no easier than winning a lottery in the body. The level of lying and the experience and insights of hiding private money in new and bad men can be written into a decent book. They also say that lovers are like clothes, and they always have to change a few things in their lifetime. He is willing to accompany you on the street because the street is full of beautiful women to visit; When he hugged you, he muttered to himself that your waist was at least twice as thick as Miss Chen in the office.