1. 25 year old law
I graduated with a master's degree at the age of 25, and before I had any social experience, it was easy to waste two years. Then I might think that I should get married, and realize why it seemed a bit late?
2. Three year law
If a boyfriend has been together for three years and feels that he should get married, but also feels that he always has some inappropriate and dissatisfied aspects. How difficult it is to get to know, get to know, and get to know someone again. Some eventually get married, while others fade away. It's hard to say anymore.
3. The heaviest grain ear follows the previous law
I always believe that there is still something better, and I always feel that I won't fall into the hands of an ordinary man like this, so I just walked on like this. Those discarded ears of grain were also picked up by someone.
4. The law of non fish
Zifei fish, Anzhi fish, and so on. The child is not me, but I know that I do not know the joy of fish. How is the life of a single woman? If you ask her, she may say it's okay and not okay. As for whether she is happy or not, perhaps only she knows for herself.
5. The Law of Men's Fear
Not afraid of men, who is afraid of men. But the fear of men entering their own lives.
6. The more backup teams there are, the more delays there are
If you don't even know what you want, how can others know. It's okay to confide or earn sympathy, but don't use their words as a love guide.
7. Contradictory law
Just find someone to get married, that's what you think when you think you should get married; How could I possibly spend my whole life with such a person? The thought of a specific man would be dull and uninteresting.
8. Half Sky Law
Women's economic independence is no longer a problem, but it is not enough for them to fully support half of the sky; Only when women can independently enjoy the various pleasures of life do they feel that marriage is not important.
9. Doctoral Law
If you unknowingly embark on the path of pursuing a PhD, it may be wiser to complete your love and marriage before graduating with a PhD.
10. The first law of confusion
They seem to have persistent opinions and attitudes towards life, have unique personalities, and are often labeled with various labels, but inwardly they are still uncertain about what they are busy with and why they live. It seems that they can be very specific, but they cannot withstand scrutiny. What exactly do they want?
11. The second law of confusion
The older a single woman gets, the less she knows what kind of life she wants.
12. Wobian Grass Law
The risk of eating grass on the edge of the nest is that one party's profession is facing a crisis, but besides grass on the edge of the nest, where else can they find food?
13. The First Law of Cruelty
Women are called 'old' as they age; The increasing age of men is called 'maturity'.
14. The Second Law of Cruelty
Although it is not kind, it must be said that the growth of women's age and qualifications is always negatively correlated with depreciation, and this is almost unaffected by men.
15. The First Law of Security
Security and marriage were originally intended to have the former through the latter, but unfortunately, the latter leads to the scarcity of the former.
16. The Second Law of Security
Single women buying a house means they are less likely to get married. The shoulders that I used to rely on when I was lonely have become my own sofa. If you constantly imply in your own nest that you can live and work without relying on men, men are really not important.
17. The law of the backward shift of marriageable age
The increase in the number of highly educated individuals has driven the backward movement of the marriageable age.
18. The Law of "Times" and "Men" Cannot Have Both
Women may think that 'this era belongs to us', but' the men of this era no longer belong to us' is also a fact.
19. Adhere to the law of self
Married women choose to give up a part of themselves when it comes to choosing marriage. If they insist on a complete personal stance, they may only choose to fall in love, and marriage becomes meaningless.
20. Taxi Law
The first sentence after getting up and the last sentence before going to bed are all talking to the taxi driver. The chance of meeting prince charming, Prince Charming, Prince Grey and prince charming on the street corner will inevitably decrease.
21. Knowing the Tiger Law in the Mountains
Many times, even though they know they are in a fruitless relationship, they still try it out and expect it to be different. Of course, the actual results are the same.
Law after 22 and 50
The conflicts and troubles between men and women born in the 1980s and parents born in the 1950s sometimes stem from the traditional family expectations of the latter.
23. Law of Progress
More than a decade ago, 'Should we get married now?' was a huge pressure for single women; Now, this pressure still exists, and some single women have raised the question of "should we get married or not.
24. Law of Data Failure
According to the gender ratio in China, there should be more men and fewer women. Why do you feel that it is difficult for women to get married? Figures such as the "proportion of men and women of marriageable age in cities" also give people the illusion of peace of mind. The age of marriageable age has been theoretically pushed back, but society seems to have not given enough recognition, at least not yet.
25. Flash Marriage Law
After a flash marriage, it is often followed by a flash divorce. Even if you see happy people living together happily ever after, you still need to look further. The success rate of love at first sight is not optimistic.
The First Law of 26 and 30 Years Old
30 years old is a knot, and 29 year old women feel that it's all over if they don't get married again. A 30 year old woman feels that the days are still long.
27, 30 years old Second Law
Before the age of 30, men do not want to get married, and after the age of 30, women are not in a hurry to get married, so they always see an old man with a young wife.
28. The Law of Law and the Law of Heaven
If there are no parents around who serve as love and marriage police officers, I feel like I really don't need to get married anymore.
29. Party Law
The men and women at the party meet every day, but the speed of SayHi to SayBye is too fast, and it's not enough to have a good discussion about marriage.
30. IT Priority Law
Women working in the IT industry are most likely to get married at the appropriate time.
31. Women are more adaptable to the laws of life
Women who enter the city are more likely to break free from their background than men, and it may take longer for men to adapt and change compared to what women can adapt to in a year or two.
32. Law of Housing
The otaku men and otaku women created by the internet dilute the possibility of love, and although they have the same preferences, they are willing to go their own way.
33. Lolita's Law
Men always like those who are younger than themselves, and women always like those who are older than themselves, but why can't they always catch the best time?
34. First Law of Dating
A blind date is like a skilled worker. The more times you meet, eat, chat, and separate, the more numb you become. Even if you meet the "acquaintance" for the nth time, you may feel numb. Sometimes the companions brought by the other party become unexpectedly refreshing and cool.
35. Second Law of Dating
Dating is like doing business, not only does it require a group of family and friends to review, but it also involves comparing goods with three different companies.
36. Laws of the Financial Industry
In this industry, the more you have daily contact with zero, the less likely you are to get married in a timely manner.
37. Susan&Mike's Law
Is education a problem? Is income a problem? The combination of female white-collar workers and male blue-collar workers is not a problem, but the reliability of people is the problem. For example, Susan and Mike, the plumber and killer, illustrated children's books in 'Desperate Housewives'. The biggest obstacle now known is the temperament and confidence issues of male blue collar workers.
38. Selective Independence Problem
Women are too independent, and men are less likely to choose them as their lovers. You are so independent, so capable, and can solve everything on your own, so men will naturally care about those women who need them more. Women need to learn to be independent in a timely manner in order not to deprive men of their sense of satisfaction.
39. "Control" Law
Uncle controlled, Zheng Taicontrolled, and same-sex female... The people who are controlled do not have the concept of "the people around them may be the candidates for marriage", and they have hardly considered the lack of plot for "marriage".
40. Rhythm Law
More and more people come into contact, the contact time becomes shorter, the eyes become more blurred, and the emotions become shallower.
41. Law of Distant Places
Not living in the city where you were born or grew up, not inspired by the path of marriage from a young age, not having seven aunts or eight aunts to arrange and lead for you, your heart is spare but your strength is insufficient.
42. DramaQueen's law
People who have watched American dramas too much will no longer feel that marriage is a necessity; People who watch too many Korean dramas can no longer bear to see the men around them.
43. There is always a human law
In the stillness of the night, dreaming back in the middle of the night, the thought of "I could have married that person N years ago" lingered in my heart again, "If... perhaps we would have gotten married long ago and had children", sighing.
44. Law of Solitude in Extreme Situations
The advantage of living alone is freedom, enduring the occasional cold and sudden depression, and becoming a hero again; The downside of living alone is that no one knows when they die at home. There are no people left, and the matter of getting married has no main body and cannot be put on the agenda.
45. Law of Infection
In a fixed small group, blind dates can be contagious, homestays can be contagious, unmarried can be contagious, and everything can be contagious.
46. Internationalization Law
In the first half of the year in Beijing, in the second half of the year in Hong Kong, this year in China, and next year in the United States, you will have to go through the test of distance before you can cultivate your liking value. No wonder your target partner cannot keep up with you.
47. There is always one last law
Single women only feel greater pressure when their friends are married.
48. Law of Two Tables
Only by keeping a watch can one know the exact time. Having two or more watches does not tell a person a more accurate time, but rather can make the watcher lose confidence in the accurate time. Replacing the table with a partner candidate applies the same law.
49. First Law of Difference in Expected Values
Although modern women are self reliant and independent, having a successful husband is equally important - it can serve as a backup for life when they don't want to do things; And men expect to struggle for 20 less years after getting married, but they have to persevere alone.
50. Second Law of Difference in Expected Values
Old school men believe in good luck, while new school men believe that behind every successful man, there is a great woman who works tirelessly. Will women be willing to be the supporting role?
51. The Law of Marriage Madness
As long as you keep talking about getting married, all single men will stay away.
Editor's note: Dear, do you now know why you are so "difficult to get married"? People often say that marriage is a tomb, but it may not always be a tomb for everyone, so for the sake of your future, reflect on yourself quickly!