There is a process for everything to happen. There is also a process for the union and rupture of a husband and wife, and the process of emotional rupture is more deterministic.
Disputes arise
At the beginning of our understanding, we always regarded the shortcomings of our partners as advantages. Over time, we became more and more dissatisfied with each other until it turned into a dispute. However, considering family factors, they began to reconcile. However, after the settlement, this scene reappeared. If the couple were introverted, they would be cold to each other in their hearts and would not quarrel on the surface. Such couples are more fearful when they have emotional disputes.
Start the alert
When there are more and more disputes between husband and wife, there must be an invisible barrier between husband and wife that hinders the normal communication between husband and wife. They will have their own little secrets and fear that the other party will know. In order to guard against each other, they keep their mouth shut about everything, like burglars, and guard against the humble love of marriage.>> The principle of "three noes" must be known when couples quarrel
Produce cracks
Not all secrets can become true secrets. It always comes to an end. If the secret disclosure causes more serious disputes, it will increase the vigilance; As a result, a vicious circle was formed and cracks finally appeared. They didn't want to live together, so they began their separation career. Even if they were forced together, there would never be intimate behavior between husband and wife.
Complete rupture
When the gap is too big to be repaired, when the relationship is completely broken, it will definitely end up with the following three outcomes: after going through the divorce procedure, we will go our separate ways; In order to live, not divorce, but just make do with their lives. In fact, the relationship between husband and wife creates a real existence; If you don't make me feel better, you can't live comfortably. They are torturing each other without divorce.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)