Just after the Spring Festival holiday, the busy couple had a long time of contact. However, during this busy Spring Festival holiday, many trivial matters affect the relationship between the two. In fact, these are also factors that affect the relationship between the two in daily life. So, in daily life, everyone must pay attention to the rules inside when getting along, especially during the festive holiday of the Spring Festival.
Tell you about the ambiguity you met
How to say, there shouldn't be any secrets between couples in terms of emotions. Meet your ex boyfriend and tell him. Some netizens winked at you and also told your husband. Keeping secrets hidden in your heart will only lead to a fire in the backyard. Covering up on such matters can create an atmosphere of secrecy, ambiguity, and disloyalty. So, it's better to tell him everything that happened. Today, my ex boyfriend wanted to add me to QQ, but I refused. "Just casually told my husband," Are you honest? Can my husband still think crooked?
Don't blame the other party's relatives and friends
Everyone has this feeling that your family, except for you, can criticize, no one else can, right? Similarly, when you are with his family and friends, you should also walk on thin ice every minute and never make mistakes. Even if he roast about his family and friends, it's not good. You must not criticize them according to his voice, or you can try it. He will soon be angry with you and defend them. The correct approach is to put oneself in his position and put oneself in his shoes.
Don't treat yourself as an omnipotent person
You are not omnipotent, so when the other party does not ask for your guidance, don't rush to play the role of a life mentor. You can provide your support and lend your ear to the other person, but avoid using the tone of 'I only know what's best' when speaking. We give advice to others because we want to help them, but if your guidance is too much, too urgent, or too aggressive, it is criticizing them. So, from the other party's clothing matching to dealing with work issues, don't talk too much and let the other party make their own decisions.
After reading the three rules for couples to get along with, you will definitely have some understanding. Moreover, experts also point out that in daily life, if a couple can follow the above rules, their marriage will become sweeter and their sexual life will become more harmonious and perfect.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)