The girl I left behind at night shared the same bed with me, but ended up being blocked by my girlfriend in the middle of the night

I fell in love with a girl who was quite beautiful because I was also pretty, so we were together. I really like this girlfriend and spoil her very much. But one day, another girl also fell in love with me. One night, the girl came to me and brought me food, and then said she wouldn't go back because it was too late. She insisted on sleeping with me, so I didn't refuse her.

As a result, in the middle of the night, I heard someone knocking on the door and went to open it. However, I found out that my girlfriend was looking for me. When she saw me sleeping with that girl, she was very angry. I wanted to explain, but my girlfriend didn't give me a chance and broke up with me.

Later, that girl even told my girlfriend that she liked me and I really didn't want to lose her. I've been begging for her for a long time now, and I even cried to let her come back, constantly confessing, but her girlfriend never said anything. I don't know what to do? I really like my girlfriend, can you help me? What should I do now?

reply:

1. What is asking for trouble, what is asking for trouble without anything? This is what you did yourself. If I were your girlfriend, not only would I have to leave you, but before I leave you, I would also have to give you two big slaps. What are you doing? Can you be serious about your relationship? Are you willing to come to you just because of your handsome appearance?

2. Love requires attentiveness, and emotions require specificity and loyalty. Otherwise, you are not worthy of falling in love. A man who is promiscuous can only be ruthlessly eliminated and despised in the end;

3. A situation where people are often prone to being cheap is not to cherish what they have, but to regret it only after losing it. I only now know that my girlfriend is good. What were you thinking about at that time? Do you think you can explain your behavior clearly? I'm afraid the more I explain it, the more it makes my girlfriend feel nauseous and the darker the description.

4. At this point, don't emphasize how much you like your girlfriend. No matter how much you like her, you also secretly like others, right? Don't cry like a little girl, man's tears are not worth money, they can only make people think you are weak and incompetent. Preserve some of a man's dignity! Of course, if you don't want to give up, you have to continue to think of ways to lower yourself and beg for mercy. As for whether you can work or exchange forgiveness from your girlfriend, only heaven knows.

No matter what, I advise you and all young people not to be too hasty on the road of pursuing love. You should know how to grasp a certain measure and cherish the person in front of you. Otherwise, if you miss it, you will have nothing to regret, and if you lose it, it will be difficult to have it again.