As the saying goes, "When a man has money, he goes bad." It seems that in the eyes of women, this sentence is true, so that women will try their best to control the financial power, just to cut off his qualifications for going bad. What is the relationship between money and deterioration? What is the motivation for men to go bad after they have financial ability?
1、 Physiological needs
There is no denying that the primary reason why men become bad is sex. Love is full of fresh excitement, but after marriage, life is only about work, apart from daily necessities. Faced with external temptations, it is inevitable to have sexual impulses, resulting in extramarital affairs.
2、 Want to be loved
After marriage, a man's family status is particularly low, and the major and minor matters in the family are managed by his wife, who always puts the children first. This can make men feel neglected, and they who are under pressure themselves are more likely to want love. If they don't get it at home and women outside can give it to them, why not do it.
3、 Satisfy vanity
Men have a strong sense of vanity. When they succeed, they are eager to receive praise and appreciation from their wives, and they also want to be recognized and even praised by their surroundings. So indirectly satisfying one's vanity by keeping a senior lover.
In addition, it is also a matter of having a long face in the eyes of men to bring a young and beautiful girlfriend with them when going out.
4、 Pursuing freshness
Pursuing novelty is not the exclusive right of wealthy men. It can be said that men and women in the world like to pursue novelty. Facing the fashionable women on the street, there will always be a lot of turning heads, but most men can only look at it because they have no money in their pockets. But for money men, they have plenty of money, and the pursuit of novelty has become the privilege of the wealthy generation, as the wife is too familiar. Therefore, there are now requests to amend the Marriage Law, strongly demanding changes to the monogamous system, and also advocating a marriage time system, which means that a marriage is only retained for a few years, and after a few years, the marriage is automatically dissolved, which is of course the most advocated by these wealthy men.
5、 Due to social climate
Nowadays, it is a clear rule for wealthy men to have a home outside their home, and it has become a symbol of their status. Moreover, it has become a social trend that will naturally spread and become the biggest reason for wealthy men to follow suit.
6、 Too much external temptation
Rich men tend to go bad, and sometimes it's not really men who can be blamed. Instead, some of us women take the initiative to drop them off. In today's society, some of us women do not want to change their destiny through their hard work, but rather want to take shortcuts. What are the shortcuts? Of course, they are successful people who either marry a wealthy man with a dead wife or achieve their goal of becoming a mistress or mistress. Now, the fundamental reason why the mistress market is becoming more and more daytime is that some of us women take the initiative to give up. How can our rich, powerful, and powerful men resist temptation when faced with women who offer to give them away?
Although controlling finances is indeed an effective way to prevent husbands from "stealing", the editor recommends that women take some time to focus on their husbands, pay more attention to their physical and mental health, and deepen family relationships, which greatly reduces the chance of cheating.