1、 The elusive dream lover:
Such a person may be a star, or a beautiful woman who looks like a star. Anything that touches her will only make men shy, but in their hearts they truly admire her. Such a lover is only suitable for appreciating in the heart and not daring to get it. It is possible to dream about her, but dare not even make a phone call in life.
Suggestion: Such a woman should not be too close. The less she knows about her affairs, the better. The more she knows, the easier it is to become a "friend" and can only be a friend. It's enough to fantasize in your heart that a "Platonic" type of romantic relationship can appear more beautiful under the beautiful lighting, which is the legendary "better to steal than to steal.".
2、 Worship your lover:
Men must not lack a sense of achievement, and the sniffle of always looking up at others will be the greatest pain for men. Men want to have a woman, not because of their looks, money, career aura, nor because of their eloquence, but because they are willing and determined to follow them.
In "The Tale of Relying on Heaven and Slaying the Dragon", Mr. Jin Yong designed such two people, one is Spider and the other is Xiaozhao. Xiaozhao has even spared no effort to wash Zhang Wuji's feet, laying a practical foundation for today's ubiquitous foot washing city. She does not seek the best, not the highest, but only to wash the feet of her beloved and serve him for a lifetime.
Suggestion: She won't ask for or interfere with you. It can be said that she has no regrets, but she must respect the other party's efforts. Even if you don't deeply love her, her departure will still make you feel disappointed.
3、 Lovers who bring endless satisfaction and pleasure in sex:
Such women may not be very beautiful, but they have a variety of styles, a sexy figure, and are easy to satisfy, making men feel like they are the most masculine. In fact, it is difficult for a man to find a lover for sex. She needs to be charming and experienced, but she cannot give the impression of being raped by a woman; "You can't either hum and haw for a long time without an orgasm, or you can't be satisfied in a few minutes and say, 'I've had enough. Let's take a break.'". Men are eager to have someone who is sexually perfect. Pan Jinlian's encounter with Ximen Qing can be said to be a model.
Suggestion: Such people can be encountered and not sought, but they are not traceable. The key is to act within our capabilities, communicate and investigate more. The most important thing is that when the heart feels, the body feels.
4、 Lovers who can help you financially:
The prince in distress often needs the help of a noble person, while those with rare talents need career support. Even men with successful careers still aspire to develop in more fields and obtain more economic benefits. In fact, this is not a transaction, but a mutual need and reasonable utilization. In fact, what men need in such women is a kind of maternal care, and children who are not weaned really need the help of adults to take another step.
Suggestion: It is absolutely not allowed to use this woman's money to pursue another woman, which is absolutely intolerable to women and is also the minimum moral. "People can be silly for love, but they won't be" silly and naive "for a lifetime.". Once you reveal that all you love is her money, you lose her; A man can accept a woman's help, but he must use it with dignity.
5、 Lovers who can enhance and satisfy their "sexual confidence"
When a man reaches a certain age, he has both money and status. His wife and longtime sweetheart are also experiencing aesthetic fatigue, and the most crucial thing is that they have lost confidence in their sexuality. They are very ambivalent in their hearts, and they dislike that little girls would rather exchange their bodies for money and status, get something for nothing, and play with old men as winners; On the one hand, they are eager to seek comfort from the physical well-being of young women. The simpler their sexual history, the more popular they will become. They do not have to worry about whether the other person is satisfied or not. Instead, they can have more pleasure and a sense of achievement in "being honest but still able to eat".
Suggestion: Don't let the wife who controls the economic lifeline seize the handle, and don't let her little lover get pregnant, otherwise all high-rise buildings will collapse overnight.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)