Post Date December, 03 2023
For the leftover men and women who are busy with their careers, blind dates are becoming more and more popular. Do you know the criteria for men to choose a spouse for women? Both men and women have different selection criteria for how to choose their partner. According to a survey, among the male selection criteria, the index that requires the other party to be "beautiful" is as high as 19%.
According to a report released recently by a well-known domestic dating website, "A Series of Surveys on Chinese Men's and Women's Concepts of Marriage and Love", among modern urban men's criteria for choosing a spouse, 19% choose "beautiful", while only 6% choose "temperament" and "gentleness". This indicates that most men consider the appearance of women first, followed by their temperament when choosing a spouse.
Is the appearance of a woman important? On this issue, most men say that whether a woman is beautiful or not is second, but if they can have both, it would be great. In the eyes of women, the mature and responsible men have a far higher choice rate than the 15% of men who are "successful in their careers," which indicates that in this material society, female friends also prioritize the material conditions of each other when choosing a spouse.
In terms of age, most men prefer women between 4 and 8 years younger than themselves, while women want to find men 2-3 years older as partners. The older you get, the greater the age gap between the partner you want to find and yourself. At the same time, the survey found that modern women's attitudes towards marriage have significantly changed, and more and more female friends hold a negative attitude towards marriage, even if they become leftover women, they are unwilling to enter the marriage palace.
In the survey of men's and women's income requirements, male friends are increasingly demanding financial requirements for their female partners. For Guangzhou men, the minimum income requirement for their ideal girlfriend for post 80s men in Guangzhou is 2739 yuan/month, only lower than in Shanghai (3146 yuan/month) and Beijing (2900 yuan/month). Women naturally have much higher requirements for men's economic conditions.
