Post Date April, 15 2023
In love, there are always many problems that make us wonder because everyone has different perspectives and understandings. What should we say about breaking up when there is a significant economic gap between us and our boyfriend?
Firstly, you need to understand the problem of being prepared for danger in times of peace
If the economic gap between you and your boyfriend is too great, then your understanding will be different. Due to different understandings, there will inevitably be differences between you on many issues. Over time, conflicts and disputes are inevitable. To avoid this situation, you need to try to adapt or adjust each other's consumption and values. Try to reduce unnecessary arguments as much as possible to avoid prolonged arguments and emotional exhaustion. So, the awareness of danger is quite important.
Secondly, you need to learn to empathize
Since our outlook on life and values are different from those of the other party, a lot of communication seems unnecessary. To understand empathy. You should consider from the other party's perspective and let them know that the problem you are analyzing has a certain reason, and you have a clear understanding of your reality. In this way, you will understand that there is still a crisis in the relationship between both parties. Once the other party knows that you have many opinions about them, they will lower their expectations for love. In the future, it will be relatively simple and much easier for you to talk about breaking up.
Once again, you need to make the other party feel that you are not suitable for them
You need to use some examples to make the other party feel that there is indeed a mismatch between you. Whether it's hobbies or a common language, there's no consensus between you, and in such a situation, the other person will understand that you're disliking them. If the other party keeps pleasing you, the consequence can only be that you become less and less fond of the other party. Let the other party know that it's not suitable between you, because good love is not tiring at all. Only in this way can the other party slowly start to understand that they must learn to give up on you. When the other party voluntarily withdraws, there is no longer a need for arguments between you.
Fourth, don't delay too long, break up decisively
If you don't love each other anymore, the gap between the two sides is so big. So learn to respect each other. The best respect is not to burden the other party. Many couples are indecisive or secretive when breaking up, which is actually just a sign of irresponsibility towards each other. Since we have been in love, both parties must have feelings. Since you have feelings, you cannot make the other party feel that you lack any credibility. So, learn to be honest with the other party. In fact, many people are not unable to accept confessions, but rather cannot accept others deceiving themselves. Without trust in the relationship, there is no future at all. So, you need to understand that if you decide to break up, don't drag on the other person for too long. This is the most basic quality and politeness of a person.
Fifth, make the other party understand that breaking up is inevitable
Many people entangle themselves with each other during breakups because they always have unrealistic fantasies about marriage. They always feel that if they work hard, they won't break up. With hard work, we can be together. Explain and the other party will forgive themselves. Little did they know that many issues are valued differently by each individual, and their opinions naturally differ. In such a situation, it is necessary to try to understand others instead of demanding them. So, since you think it's not appropriate, don't give the other party hope of being together. Without hope, there is no disappointment.
