Investment
For women, once they encounter and become attracted, it's like smoking opium. They always hope to be immersed in it forever and feel its floating romance. They are easily unwilling to get rid of it, and cannot get rid of it; For men, when encountering the woman they love, it's like tasting a pot of high-quality wine, knowing that only a few sips are the most charming. If they drink too much, it may bring pain after getting drunk. Therefore, men do not fully devote themselves to love as women do.
Fall in love
A woman will not easily fall in love with someone because her mind is always delicate. When encountering people and things, she must weigh them on the balance of her heart, whether she has met her own requirements and goals. Only when the two ends of the balance are balanced, can she possibly give all her love. Men are always more likely to fall in love than women, so they have more opportunities to fall in love at first sight than women. They only rely on a momentary psychological feeling that liking is love, only craving for the beauty and happiness in front of them, and rarely think about what will happen in the future. They don't think deeply about those trivial matters, and I don't know if this is the reason why men are more likely to fall in love than women.
Fantasy
Women are always full of fantasies about love, weaving endless fairy tales in their own fantasy castle. However, when the cruelty of reality shattered their dreams, the assertion that "love has no insurance period, love is a short-lived thing" also spread from women's mouths. Men's rationality makes them never think about creating love myths that are withered and crumbling. They are well aware of the principle that "good flowers do not bloom often, and good times do not always exist", so being able to seize the most beautiful moment in front of them can also be a great source of comfort.
Demand
Women in love rely on men as pillows, as walls to block wind and rain, and as children to love. Men have become women's support and sustenance. In love, men tend to cover women like quilts, stroll around like gardens, and claim them like mothers. Women become a warm haven for men.
Focus
Women in love often become "short-sighted", only seeing their own love and their own self, while keeping others out of sight. Men, on the other hand, are not. Even if they deeply love the woman around them, they can still look left and right while holding you, casting their eyes towards the outside world.
Means
Women use their lives to manage love, and then use love to restrain men from managing men, while men use freedom to win back love. Although the reins are held in the hands of women, they can never easily control love like men. Therefore, sometimes women inevitably wave their whip and shout loudly at men, hoping to tame them. However, the more women let go of deliberate supervision, the more men will be intoxicated, Not willing to leave.