Once upon a time, it was very common for men to have three wives and four concubines. With the change of society, monogamy became the dominant form of marriage. However, there are always some people who can't bear to eat only "one dish" every day, go out to have sex and make extramarital love and other things that violate responsibility and morality. Moreover, not only men will do this, but also women will not be outdone.
Although on the surface, extramarital love may be very "happy", and may get more "love" and benefits. However, under its dazzling "halo", there are various crises hidden.
The crisis brought by extramarital love to couples
First, "extramarital love" affects physical and mental health. In reality, when women are troubled by extramarital love, they do not want their family to break down, but they prefer to attach to the exciting extramarital love, and are in a dilemma. In this way, women tend to blame themselves, regret and cannot get rid of it, which affects their normal life and work, their emotions, and their physical and mental health.
Secondly, it bruises her husband's self-esteem. Women engaging in "extramarital love" will make their husbands wear "green hats". If you let him know, it will be a pain that is hard to eliminate in his heart. As a big man who can't control his wife, he will feel that he has lost his dignity and can't stand up in front of others, thus losing his enterprising spirit and affecting his future social life and work. Individual men with fragile feelings will also lose courage and end in depression. Such serious results are also common in daily life.
Third, destroy the happiness of the family. The occurrence of "extramarital love" by married women often leads to disharmony in the life of the husband and wife, overshadowing their originally happy family and leading to divorce. At the same time, due to the involvement of women as a "third party", another family may be disturbed, and another good family may be broken up.
Finally, it affects the healthy growth of children. Once the "extramarital love" is known to the child, it will be harmful to the healthy growth of the child. The discord between husband and wife and the cold war will have a negative impact on children. Because parents are the first teachers of their children, their words and deeds will have a subtle impact on their children.
Women who fall into extramarital love will be detected by their children sooner or later. The children will either learn from their mother, or even not grow up to engage in extramarital love like their mother, or "draw a line" with their mother, despise and dislike their mother, or even stop calling their mother. It may also distort children's psychological development, make children no longer trust their parents, and make children have negative attitudes towards future love and marriage.