Post Date December, 03 2023
Life requires capital, which is the foundation for a person to stand in the world and achieve success. Without life capital, it is difficult to survive in the world, let alone achieve success. If a man has the capital of life, he will have a stage to fully exert himself and become the owner of dual happiness in life and career.
There is a famous motivational saying: "Everyone's life hides great opportunities, and each of us should rely on ourselves to discover and utilize this godsend opportunity. This is a life lesson that each of us has learned
Times are changing rapidly, and competition is also moving towards higher levels and stages, but opportunities are also limited. Men, in order to seize the opportunities that come upon them and pursue their dreams, they must cultivate exceptional qualities and create exceptional capital. For a successful man, the following capital is required:
1. Psychological capital.
Attitude determines everything. When facing the complex world and unpredictable life, a man must first have a correct attitude and eliminate the haze in his heart. If the mindset is correct, the world is correct; As big as the heart is, the stage is as big. Looking at life with a sunny and beautiful mentality, life is a bright scene.
2. Emotional intelligence capital.
Emotional intelligence determines the fate. The road of life is not always smooth, but full of ups and downs. Frustrations and failures occur from time to time. If a man wants to overcome all of these, he must have a high emotional intelligence. He will not bend down when the mountain is high. He will dispel negative emotions, become more brave and more determined.
3. Image capital.
This is a world where two minutes determine fate. Image is to men what signs are to shops. Image is a man's business card and a passport for men to walk in society. A good image reflects a man's inner qualities, academic cultivation, and personality charm, enabling him to win the respect and trust of others, and also bringing more development opportunities for him.
4. Verbal capital.
Eloquence plays an irreplaceable role in a man's journey towards success. If two men with different knowledge structures and comparable abilities, one of whom has a lotus like mouth and good eloquence, while the other has a dull language and is not good at expressing themselves, then undoubtedly the former will be more likely to succeed. No matter how skilled and capable a man is, he lacks the ability to sell himself. Without social and people's recognition, his talents will be buried. A good mouth can open up a career path for men and broaden their horizons in life.
5. Life capital.
In the vast world, people have different hearts, each with their own ideals and pursuits. Interpersonal conflicts of interests and conflicts of ideas, fame and wealth, gains and losses of honor and disgrace, constantly affect the hearts of men. The fame and fortune market is full of traps and hidden reefs, and one cannot move forward or backward in life, showing their sharp edges.
Relying on talent and arrogance will inevitably become the target of criticism and the "leading bird" who fails without knowing the reason. A wise man can penetrate the secrets of life. An eagle stands like a sleep, a tiger moves like a disease, a wise man is like a fool, a skillful man is like a clumsy one, capable of stretching and yielding, and combines strength and softness. In the world of intrigue and open and secret struggles, he swims in and out, moves forward and backward freely, and is proud of life.
6. Social capital.
Why are some men popular and popular in social circles, while others lack popularity and do not receive support from others? The reason is that some men have superior social capital and know the art and tricks of socializing, while others lack this capital and do not know how to deal with and solve problems and conflicts in interpersonal communication. Interpersonal communication skills are one of the essential skills for modern successful men.
7. Network capital.
Whether a person is successful or not depends not on who they know, but on who they know. Only 15% of a person's success is attributed to their knowledge and professional skills, while the remaining 85% depends on their interpersonal skills. Modern society is an era that advocates teamwork and mutual benefit, and it is difficult to achieve success solely by relying on individuals fighting alone. To achieve success, men need to rely on their connections to serve themselves and leverage the power of others to conquer the world. Human connections determine a man's lifeline.
8. Smart capital.
A man with outstanding appearance, fluent speech, and appropriate behavior is not enough, as it still tends to be superficial and give people a sense of flashiness. A wise man should constantly improve himself through learning and practice, reflect on himself, draw on the strengths of others, innovate his thinking, and promote self-improvement. A man who cultivates both internally and externally, with a keen mind, can keep up with the times and always walk at the forefront of the tide of the times.
9. Institutional capital.
Career is a man's second life, and the man with a career is the most charming and powerful man. With a career, men can establish themselves in society and provide a protective umbrella for their families. Losing a career means a man loses everything. Men must establish their own career capital, establish their own career kingdom, reflect their values and roles in work, and strive for their rightful status and capital in society and family.
