Post Date April, 15 2023
Nowadays, people no longer regard love as a purely spiritual and sensory behavior, but rather painstakingly materialize it: in form of matter, with law or morality as the rope. Don't criticize "material girls", criticize premarital property notarization, and don't question whether individual women have entered into a "non cheating bond" with their husbands, as women in love increasingly lack a sense of security.
——Love needs a bottom line.
Unclear material bottom line
It should be said that compared to Western women, Chinese women are generally less sensitive to material matters, and the material bottom line of love is relatively unclear.
In this survey, more than 50% of respondents objected to the issue of whether pre marital property should be notarized. This result should be said to be expected, because when two people decide to get married, generally speaking, they are in love and trust each other because of their love; And property notarization will undoubtedly undermine this trust. However, on the other hand, it is now an era of rampant extramarital affairs, and it often happens that husbands with lovers leave their wives penniless during divorce; Moreover, although the law does not protect the rights and interests of "lovers", it does protect children born out of wedlock from enjoying the same treatment as children born in wedlock - that is, there may be people who have nothing to do with you to divide up the wealth that should belong to you and your children.
"Do you agree with sharing money with him?" There are 37. 31% disapprove, 24. 79% agreed, while others said they should "look at the situation". So, we have reason to believe that the so-called "look at the situation" refers to factors such as two people's emotional status, economic status, and the personality of each other. That is to say, women are still relatively emotional on this issue.
I don't know if men will be moved by the results of this survey. Should they reflect on whether they are worth a woman's lifetime?
The bottom line of "sex" is loose
A very embarrassing thing: If you search for "bottom line of love" on Google, the stories that cite this word in the results are all about someone's physical infidelity. The bottom line of "sex" is almost equal to the bottom line of love.
However, in the survey, there were 43 responses to the question, "If he occasionally cheated physically, would you forgive him?". "01% said they will never forgive, which can be seen as the bottom line for women's sexual setting - never forgive, otherwise they will say goodbye.".
But there are also 39. 32% said they would "look at the situation," with 17. 6% said they could be forgiven if they didn't stray mentally. Women's attitudes towards "sex" are clearly more tolerant. Can this also indicate that the bottom line is gradually becoming loose? After all, with the changes in social environment and people's attitudes, premarital cohabitation and extramarital affairs have become more common, and both men and women pay more attention to their own emotional expression and sustenance.
In the daily trivial life, the two people who originally loved each other will no longer have a sense of freshness due to understanding, and even generate various dissatisfaction and contradictions due to daily friction. At this time, a third party often becomes a new love object.
For this reason, when it comes to dealing with physical infidelity, people no longer simply criticize it morally and arbitrarily, but rather treat it more rationally and treat it differently based on specific circumstances. At the same time, unmarried and married people often come to different conclusions about this issue: unmarried people view this issue with an ideal perspective, and therefore cannot accept practices that are contrary to pure "love"; Married people have a more peaceful and tolerant attitude.
