The most precious thing in one's life is true love. Once you put into a serious relationship, you will feel very discouraged when you find that you have no harvest. But if you think it is worth it, you will continue to make efforts. When you lose your former charm in the other person's heart, how can you attract them again? How to actually attract and save the ex-girlfriend for the second time?
First of all, we should start to understand women's heart
You can start to consider studying women's psychology. You should know that women in love today are different from us before. Most of the people we met before were brothers and sisters, who knew etiquette and comity from childhood. The current people are not the same as before. Most of them have only children. Many girls have been spoiled by their families since childhood and do not know the so-called tolerance and etiquette. Especially for children spoiled by parents and old people, in their world, they are the center, even when they are in love. They can't accept the other party's slight on them, and think they want to be a real princess after they have a boyfriend. Therefore, in this case, many problems will arise.
Secondly, learn to build your own personal temperament
A man's temperament often attracts women's attention. So, as a man, you must pay attention to it. Because only if you are careful, the other party will find you attractive. Therefore, at this time, we should learn to build our charm and improve our temperament. Cultivate both inside and outside, not only pay attention to dress, but also pay attention to your own culture. Therefore, when speaking and doing things, learn to make the other party feel comfortable. Only when you make the other party feel comfortable, can the other party feel safe with you. When a girl likes the boy she finds, love becomes much easier.
Thirdly, learn to move the other side with actions
How to save your girlfriend with action? You can insist on buying breakfast for each other every morning, or go to pick them up and let them feel your gentle care for each other. You should know that the current society is very impetuous, and few people are willing to wait for a few people willingly. If you know how to protect each other, then you will unknowingly enter the heart of each other. People must love first and then others. Respect others first and others later. When you understand that when you pay first and think more about everything, you will show the elegance and maturity of a man.
Finally, you should know how to have your own hobbies
No matter how much you like each other, sometimes you should pay attention to keeping your hobbies. You can't completely lose yourself just because you like each other. You can cultivate your hobbies, such as playing ball, swimming, which is also a manifestation of your charm and personality enhancement. People will always encounter many things in their life. But only by constantly improving your hobbies can you become full, and hobbies will enrich your life invisibly, making you feel that it is good to live in this life. No matter what happens, you will have an optimistic attitude.
If you want to attract the other party for the second time, the first thing is that you have the action and ability to attract the other party for the second time. When you know how to move the other party with sincere actions and constantly improve your own cognition and insight, you can increase the possibility of saving the other party.