As a husband and boyfriend, it is so important to appear when a woman needs it the most. However, many times they miss these critical time points, such as these 5.
1、 When sick and helpless
People are most vulnerable when they are sick. In addition to the entanglement of the disease itself, it can also lead to depression and various wild thoughts. At this point, women need to be accompanied and cared for, especially those who love men to be by their side.
Accompanying is important, but more importantly, taking care of oneself, rather than being left unattended. If you can personally cook and cook a delicious meal for her, her liking for you will increase a lot!
2、 When heartbroken
When a woman encounters a sad situation, she usually finds her beloved man to complain as soon as possible. The purpose is twofold: 1. to express her grievances and crave corresponding comfort; 2. I hope that my beloved man can protect himself from the wind and rain.
Most women are a group that lacks a sense of security. They often cry to men, not to expose their affectation in front of them, but to crave protection. For this reason, when a woman sends a distress signal, a man must respond with a sense of responsibility. Being a shrinking turtle at this moment will only disappoint the woman and attempt to withdraw.
3、 Hospital delivery time
Pregnant women are the most beautiful because during the October pregnancy period, she experienced the ups and downs of the human world. The reason why she can persist is an absolute manifestation of the greatness of motherhood. The heartbreaking pain during childbirth will make a woman remember her whole life, just for the crystallization of love, and she has no regrets or grievances. That is to say, even if a man is heartbroken during the entire process of conceiving a woman, it is the woman who suffers. During this period, women actually have no high expectations of men, only hoping that men can be loyal to love and be by their side during childbirth. So, when your wife gives birth, it's best for a man to actively offer to accompany her, which is also the best way to prove that you love her.
4、 When unexpected surprises occur
When you're sad, you want to cry, but when you're happy, of course you want to share! When a woman receives a reward or affirmation, she will immediately show off in front of her beloved man. Showing off is actually about sharing her inner joy and hoping to receive a reward from the man. "I knew my woman was the best." However, some men may not chat happily and like to pour cold water when a woman is happy, which can instantly disrupt her good mood.
5、 Unscheduled Terror
Everyone has their own fatal point, for example, some people are afraid of dogs, some people are afraid of cockroaches, and some people are afraid of snakes. For this reason, when a woman encounters something she is afraid of, it may seem like a piece of cake to a man. However, a man should not blame a woman for making a fuss at this moment, but quickly embrace her in his arms to help her eliminate her fear. Women need absolute comfort and protection when they are constantly in a state of shock, rather than hearing harsh rebukes and disdains. Those men who only care about their own feelings and ignore women's feelings will eventually let women see through your selfishness, and will be disappointed in you due to your long-term selfishness, and will be cold hearted about your own efforts. To this end, men are warned not to wait until they lose before learning to cherish.