Post Date May, 22 2023
After a sexual encounter, you are satisfied, but she is unhappy. What rule did you break and why couldn't you please your partner? What does a woman in bed care most about? Only by understanding the thoughts of the person next to you can sexual life become more perfect.
Women are emotional animals, and don't forget, they are also devils who pay attention to details. If you want to satisfy her, you need to pay more attention. Women are not concerned about strength, time and size. There are other more important things waiting for your attention. You can listen to her mind!
The most unbearable thing for women
1. A perfunctory foreplay
Women often regard gentle and considerate foreplay as a manifestation of love, and meticulous and considerate caressing is not only an appreciation of her body, but also a true expression of love. Although many people understand this principle, there are still men who go straight to the topic without hesitation, which only makes women feel disgusted, let alone perfect sex.
Expert opinion: Women's physiological characteristics determine that they need a longer period of excitement. The caressing behavior of a man before sexual activity, including kissing, hugging, stroking, and even massaging, can help the woman become excited.
2. Not paying attention to hygiene and not wearing condoms
Perhaps it's because of laziness, or perhaps because of their love for improvised sex, many men refuse to take a shower before sex. What makes women even more headache is that some men even refuse to wear condoms because they don't like to scratch their boots. However, unsafe sex brings various troubles to women, including gynecological diseases, miscarriages, etc. Therefore, the men who women cannot tolerate the most are those who oppose them in bathing and condom issues.
Expert opinion: from the physiological characteristics of women, women are more susceptible to infectious diseases of the reproductive tract. This is also the reason why women are more demanding of cleanliness.
3. Fall asleep after sex
If you fall asleep due to exhaustion after sex, no woman wouldn't think that way: he just uses me as a tool to vent his desires, and he doesn't love me at all. Dr. Judy, a renowned American therapist, also pointed out that during sexual intercourse, the pituitary gland of the brain secretes oxytocin, which creates warmth and the desire to embrace. Women are more likely to produce this hormone than men. So, after having sex, women are more eager to embrace and caress.
Expert point of view: Women experience slower sexual arousal than men, and similarly, their sexual arousal also slows down after orgasm. The man can continue to provide some stimulation to help them gradually dissipate their sexual arousal.
4. Inappropriate sexual requirements
Regardless of whether she is exhausted or physically uncomfortable, a man who only makes sexual demands will only make women feel disgusted and feel that you don't care about her at all, but only about their own desires. Making love is originally a matter of mutual consent, and once forced, it will suddenly feel dull and tasteless.
Expert opinion: Remind men that inappropriate sexual demands can make women feel disgusted and subconsciously resist sexual activity.
What women most want men to do
1. Praise for the body
No matter how beautiful a woman's body is, there is always a sense of shame and inferiority in her subconscious towards being naked. Women tend to focus on physical defects, such as inadequate thighs or breasts, which can affect the production of sexual pleasure. But if the man can hold an appreciative attitude towards the lover's body, give encouragement and praise, then the woman will be easier to relax and fully trust to hand over herself to the other party.
Expert opinion: When a woman exposes her most private parts to her partner, even if she is not perfect, she will expect praise from her partner, which can help improve her confidence and sense of participation.
2. Atmosphere
A woman is a sensitive animal, and during sexual intercourse, her senses of sight, smell, hearing, and touch are all very open and sensitive. Any romantic feelings that bring to the senses will become something she cares about. For example, lingering music, romantic lights, and attractive perfume, while touching love words are a must kill skill to create an atmosphere. Continuous love words will make her instantly become tender.
Expert opinion: High quality sex is not about starting in bed, but about spending time together before going to bed. For example, a romantic dinner, an anniversary surprise, or a special gift.
3. Pay attention to her feelings
Most men hope to be skilled in sex, but women may not necessarily like some sexual techniques. Sex is an interactive process, and even if there are tacit couples, there are also misunderstandings in communication. The only way is to pay attention to her feelings and maintain communication at all times. Observing her reaction or asking her 'Do you like this?' thoughtful behavior will make her feel sweeter and make your sex more harmonious.
Expert opinion: The sensitive areas of sexual activity vary from person to person, and each person's preferred way of caressing is also different. Therefore, it is important to maintain attention and communication.
4. Blending with her body and mind
Few women have sex solely for the sake of their desires, and in this process, they seek both physical and mental satisfaction. So, women hope that their partner can engage in more emotional communication with them in advance, such as listening to her troubles, soothing her unease, and paying attention to her needs. Only with good spiritual communication can they truly complete a perfect sexual encounter.
Expert opinion: Women view sex as a process of physical and mental integration. So, after a quarrel, men often hope to reconcile with sex, but women cannot have sex in this mood.
