Post Date December, 02 2023
When I first got my hand, I hurt people to the bone. I called her a dozen times a day and sent her dozens of messages. You will remember what she said, and you will try your best to satisfy what you want to eat, buy, and go. I am gentle and considerate, and I can't wait to stay with her for 24 hours; At the beginning, she is always inclusive. Even if her life habits are different from yours, she will work hard to debug and cooperate. Everything is beautiful
Long time, tired! Don't talk about dozens of phone calls every day. Even one phone call is too lazy to call. When you call, you only talk about the specific situation, which saves those "interesting" words that don't matter; Not to mention the information. Half of the 10 messages she sent back to you, you think you have replied enough. Even if she called you, you think she is wordy!
You won't get up early because she wants to eat breakfast, you won't queue up for her to buy what she wants, you won't ask for leave to take her to the place she wants to go, you will feel that she depends on you for everything, and you will feel that she has a lot of troubles!
Then you will find that her shortcomings are more and more. Her advantages will soon be covered up by her shortcomings. You can't bear it! Finally, tired! With a simple sentence of "break up!", I ended my complicated feelings; Or wait until one day she can't stand the sudden heat and cold or the uncertain attitude and chooses to leave. You can also say that she left you by herself, and you are not disappointed
Man, do you remember that you once said: "I will always be so good to you, love you and spoil you all my life!"
It's not that she has a lot of trouble. It's because you said too well at the beginning that she relies on you!
Do you remember that you once said, "No matter how late you are, you can call me if you can't sleep, and my mobile phone will turn on for you 24 hours!"
Then you don't think she is considerate. She bothers you by calling when working in the daytime. She still bothers you when you have to sleep after a hard day. Who made her form the habit of calling you whenever and where she wanted to?
She makes trouble without reason
That's because your attitude changed from a certain period of time, and you began to snub her; It makes her feel insecure and makes her suspicious! It's not that she doesn't trust you and doesn't give you space, but that she loves you, cares about you and spends all her time caring about you. The subtle changes in your life involve her emotions!
She has a bad temper
That's because she knows a lot of things at many times, but if you don't say it, she always chooses to be silent; They will burst out all the resentment in their hearts when the backlog reaches a certain time; You know, these are not her bad temper, but you are not careful enough to find that they have been accumulated!
She is no longer as attractive as before
Who said that he didn't like her changing like a butterfly every day? Who said that he liked her pure appearance? Although it is human nature to like the new and hate the old, everything except Chairman Mao and antiques will be aesthetically tired after a long time; But she is not a thing, she is a living person with feelings!
You no longer give her answers, no longer give her promises, don't hope you can't make these answers and promises become lies in the future
Then you gave her so many answers and promises before, and now you can pave the way for yourself. How can she forget what you promised before?
Women are not afraid that their promises will not be fulfilled. They are afraid that if you promise and don't realize it, it will be another problem!
You are busy. You have no time and energy to please her. You don't know what she is thinking now?
Aren't you busy before? Did you spend all your time trying to please her instead of working? Then why did you observe her carefully before?
You think you don't deserve it. You don't want her to waste her feelings on this unproductive love. Why did you chase her in the first place? Do experiments? She has wasted so much emotion. When you think of emotion as a faucet, turn it on and off! Yes, all these are your excuses for yourself! Don't think that changing a girlfriend can always get rid of that period of gloomy feelings, because in the near future you will still have to return to this time. So will your next girlfriend, the next girlfriend, and the next girlfriend. There is a kind of you who will never fall in love or get married
Men, after reading it, think back to your good time. Now, when no one secretly thinks about it, are you making excuses for yourself?
Is the woman you used to love so unworthy of your love now?
Don't say that you will be with her until you are blind. Because you are not blind, please don't insult the dog!
Those who regret breaking up should try hard to recover from the new situation, and then manage their shared feelings with heart!
In fact, what women want is very simple, just want a man who loves himself
If you want to break up, consider clearly that not every relationship can be saved!
It's not good to think too long, because they can endure your snubbing her for a while, but they won't be silly all their life; No matter how silly they are, they will give themselves a period of time to endure your indifference and trust your love; But when the time comes, they will leave without hesitation. At that time, no amount of sweet talk will be useless, because no one in the world can live without leaving!
In love, cherish the silly woman who is willing to take care of you, considerate of you, and willing to accompany you to bear the storm! After this village, there may be no such store
When it's time to get married, get married. Don't procrastinate; Getting a marriage certificate is like buying insurance, at least you have the bottom of your heart
Love is like cooking Congee! When it is hot, add some ingredients to make it hot and tasty; When you forget to turn off the fire and boil it, you don't even want to smell it. You even want to throw it away
