Post Date April, 15 2023
A man should marry a woman, and when you reach the age of love, are you mentally healthy? Perhaps you are also concerned about this issue, because unhealthy attitudes can affect our choices. Let's introduce a test to test your mental health
Question: What happens when your lover pleasantly asks you to do something you may not be able to do?
1. Promising and pretending to be very willing
2. Slightly hesitant but still happy to agree
3. Decline politely and ask for their understanding
4. A refusal indicates that it cannot be done
Psychoanalysis:
1. Promising and pretending to be very willing
It is obvious that he is a person who dare not confess. Of course, there are many reasons for not being honest. Perhaps it's because you love the other person too much, afraid of their anger, or because you intentionally deceive them, or even if you have false feelings. In short, the person who chooses this answer, whether male or female, is someone with a problem with their love mentality. If you want to have a healthy and complete love, it is best to change this mentality of not being honest, otherwise this person's love personality will never find true love and lover. This person has a strong sense of gain and loss, and even if they have a lover, they will be troubled by your lack of candor. If you want to have true love, it's best to be honest with each other. After all, love is the connection between the hearts of both parties, and honesty is the basic condition.
2. Slightly hesitant but still happy to agree
Belongs to people who are thoughtful and considerate of each other. Because I didn't want to disappoint or hurt the other person, and I didn't want them to feel cheated, I hovered in my mind for a while and would agree at all costs. Once promised, I will work hard to complete the task, and even if I cannot achieve it, I will sincerely tell the other party that I have done my best. In fact, this kind of person is willing to sacrifice for the other party, and can be said to be the greatest person, but also the most hardworking lover.
3. Decline politely and ask for their understanding
A very rational lover neither has too many fantasies nor too practical utilitarianism, and can be said to be a lover with a healthy mindset. However, there is a slight lack of romance that many people do not recognize, because romance is something that requires some irrational emotions.
4. A refusal indicates that it cannot be done
He is a very realistic person. This type of person will not daydream, and of course, they will not do unrealistic things, especially things that harm their own interests. Even when facing their loved ones, they will mercilessly refuse. Perhaps these people are born to say whatever they have, but they may be too straightforward, often offending others, and even hurting the feelings of their loved ones. So when dating someone like this, remember not to have too many fantasies, and don't often act coquettishly. Otherwise, using a hot face to touch a cold buttocks is not cost-effective.
You know your attitude towards love now. If you're wrong, you might as well correct it and adjust your mindset.
