Post Date December, 03 2023
The first step: often touch gently. A simple touch can make people feel warm and comfortable, and the effect of touching each other's back is magical, especially for women.
The second way: share secrets. Write what you are thinking on paper, and then use a few minutes to convey your thoughts to the other party in ways other than words, so that the other party can guess.
The third way: wholeheartedly. People who are half-hearted tend to be suspicious of their partner's behavior and lack trust. In the long run, it will cause fatal damage to the relationship between the two parties.
The fourth way: imitate each other. People are more likely to become lovers with people who are similar to themselves - whether in terms of intellectual level, background or personal charm - and sometimes just imitating each other can also enhance their feelings. Practice method: two people stand or sit close, move their hands and feet at will, but at the same time imitate each other's actions, so that both people feel free and both sides are consistent.
Fifth: Prepare some jokes. In a lasting and happy relationship, lovers can always make each other laugh. Other studies have shown that women are more likely to fall in love with male partners who can make them laugh.
The sixth way: do things we haven't done together. People's memories are stored in categories. If you are the first person to remember in each type of memory of the other party, then you will truly achieve "you in me, you in me".
The seventh way: relax the psychological defense line. Relaxing vigilance can help to cultivate feelings, but using alcohol to paralyze nerves is not a good way. You can hug each other gently, try to feel each other's breath, and gradually synchronize your breath with it. After a few minutes, the two will feel integrated.
The eighth way: accommodate the other party appropriately. Make some good changes for the other party, such as quitting smoking and drinking, which will make your status soar.
The ninth way: small danger excites the feeling of "heartbeat". The physical and mental reactions of people engaged in some intense or risky activities are very similar to the feeling of "over electricity" in love. In addition to playing roller coasters and watching thrillers, Epstein also taught us a small game: two people fall back alternately, and the other side catches them behind.
Tenth move: a little closer. Close to water helps people feel good about each other. If two people consciously approach each other and deliberately let each other enter their personal space, they will soon become intimate. Practice: The two people stand at a distance of about 1 meter, and then pull the distance a little closer every 10 seconds until the two sides are about to meet.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
