1、 Compensatory psychology
Some people find it difficult to endure loneliness due to the separation of their spouses (their wives are pregnant), or because one spouse has a physiological defect and cannot be satisfied physically, or their relationship is not harmonious. Therefore, they actively seek a third party or are willing to accept compensation from a third party, resulting in extramarital love. Sexual life is not the entire content of married life. As long as couples strengthen their connections, communicate emotionally, and miss each other in their hearts, life will still be fulfilling, and there is no need to compensate.
2、 A lack of affection mentality
Some lovers eventually fail to become family members, and either party becomes a family, or after one party becomes a family, the other party is unwilling to become a family and still secretly loves the other party. When one party's life is difficult or the marital relationship is not harmonious, the other party feels that they still owe the other party a love, so they actively throw themselves into the arms of their old lover, and the old love revives, resulting in extramarital love. Not all lovers can become family members. Since both parties have already married or the other party has already married, they should face reality and cherish their marital relationship. When the other party has difficulties in life or their marital relationship is not harmonious, using extramarital love to repay the other party's love is not so much to help the other party, but rather to harm the other party, which is actually useless.
3、 Greedy mentality
Some people, due to their greed for the other party's money and disregarding their own personality, voluntarily commit themselves to the other party in exchange for a few copper coins, thus forming an extramarital relationship.
4、 Visual psychology
Some people engage in extramarital love due to their desire for the beauty of their female partner or the physical fitness of their male partner. Appearance beauty naturally disappears with age, only spiritual beauty is eternal, like wine, which becomes more mellow over time. Therefore, the most important thing is to be good at discovering the shining points of your spouse and giving your true love, so that there will naturally be beauty in the eyes of your lover.
5、 Gratitude psychology
Some people receive help from the other party due to difficulties in life, or have an extramarital affair due to their husband being away for a long time and their family being taken care of by the other party for a long time. They have no choice but to sacrifice their bodies, resulting in no return. In fact, since the other party is sincere in helping you, they do not seek your reward. If the other party is kind to you, just remember it in your heart. Why give up your body? If it affects the other party's family as a result, is it not a good intention to do bad things.