Love is beautiful, but love is not easy. To perform well in front of the woman you like and maintain a happy relationship, you must remember the following ten military rules that cannot be violated!
Taboo 1: Invite at the Last Minute
A couple only met at 7 pm and immediately arranged to meet again at 9 pm, which is not considered impolite. The feeling of suddenly wanting to see each other is actually quite touching. But if his words were like this: "Hey! My friend and I had an appointment to go for dinner, but it was canceled temporarily, are you free now?" Such people would certainly be annoying.
Taboo 2: Mention your ex girlfriend
This may be the most common mistake that lovers make. Saying good things to your ex girlfriend in front of you indicates that he has not fully accepted the fact of the breakup. Blaming your ex girlfriend in front of you implies that if you break up with him in the future, your evaluation in his mouth will not be much better. The best way is to never mention the experiences of a relationship.
Taboo three: Can't wait to rush to the bathroom
Jumping from your bed and rushing towards the bathroom is certainly not a bad thing, unless he makes such a move within 4 seconds of completing your task. What does this mean? Does he want to say, 'I feel so dirty, I need to wash myself up quickly?' The above plot appears in the TV series' Sex and the City 'and sounds funny, but in real life, encountering people with this bathing habit may make it difficult for you to laugh.
Taboo 4: Take out a condom too early or too late
The following is an unpleasant experience left by a netizen. She had her first date with a super kawaii guy, and they met at PUB at 11pm. At 1am, both of them felt pretty good, and she was already mentally prepared to kiss the guy's mouth. But then the guy said, "Let's go! I'll take everything I need with me." She asked, "What are you talking about?" The guy replied, "It's just a condom!" What do these guys think of girls? However, this serious mistake has at least one redeeming feature, which is to let girls know early on that you are a rascal, so they don't have to waste more time with you.
In addition, there is also a situation that is even worse than before. You have been dating a guy for a period of time, and tonight the weather and location are favorable, which is bound to develop a more intimate relationship. Everything went smoothly, you took off your clothes, lay down comfortably, hugged each other happily, until... in the darkness, you suddenly heard his voice: "Did you think of the one I thought of? Because I forgot
You have already invited him home, do you still need to prepare ultra-thin sensitive condoms in the drawer of the bedside table? You are not a professional in the sex industry. At this time, you'd better stand up and get dressed, and ask him to go home on his own. Unable to retrieve a condom at a critical moment is simply a lack of survival ability!
Taboo 5: There is only one safety helmet on the locomotive
This is a personal experience of a colleague and friend. She dated a popular variety show host, and he proposed to take her home. Unexpectedly, his car was not a car, but a motorcycle, and there was only a helmet on the car, and it was still raining that night... All these things were tolerable. Anyway, girls would like to take his car.
But who is wearing the safety helmet for? Of course it's a man, and his reason is: 'I don't want to be photographed by the paparazzi.'. So the girl called a taxi herself and went home. Later, when the boy called her again, she didn't even want to answer!
Taboo 6: When kissing, keep your eyes on other places
What is more embarrassing than seeing a couple openly kissing in a crowded public place? Yes, it's the man who looks at you with his eyes when he's kissing, showing great interest in you.
We all agree that where to look when kissing is indeed a problem. Staring at each other, the nose stuck in the middle ensures that your eyes are out of focus. Close your eyes, please! It seems to be playing the Qiong Yao drama series. Unfortunately, the standard answer can only choose between the two above.
Taboo seven: giving you second-hand gifts
In a beautiful box, there was a ring, a pair of candlesticks, or a sweater, but something was wrong. Although the gift was as good as new, the wrapping paper seemed slightly wrinkled. Because this gift was not originally bought for you, but for her ex girlfriend, but she left too early to accept this offer.
After you discovered this secret, you couldn't help but forward the gift as if it could spread diseases, but forgot that the person who received it also knew him. On an unfortunate occasion, everyone finally realized that this gift had undergone so many resource recycling cycles, which would make the first person to buy it and the last person to receive it feel like you, feeling depressed.
Taboo 8: Refusing to disclose important details
What are important details? Children, pets, wives, husbands, and anyone to support. When you plan to have a deep relationship with someone, hiding these details may lead to negative consequences.
If you persist in this low-key style, the two of you will have to find a secret place to "fall in love" in a strange place. For the other party who confesses, this not only hurts their feelings, but also is unfair. Similarly, if you have been dating for more than six months before he starts introducing friends and family to you, such people may have significant secrets hidden from you. Be careful!
Taboo 9: Show excessive openness
Here is Susan's story. Susan met a middle-aged man named George during her summer vacation, who was as handsome as George Clooney and not as lascivious as him. Their love at first sight was simply too beautiful to be realistic; Under the tree in the park, the romantic conversation lasted for two hours, and their eyes never left each other until the sun tilted westward. He said he is an architect, has no children, and recently divorced
How could there be such a good thing in the world? Susan's intuition was that there must be some deception in it. As expected, at the moment they met, George said, "Come to my house tonight. You might as well bring a good friend over with you. I am very passionate about playing 3P
Taboo 10: Do not call or call
The situation is like this. The two of them have been dating for a while, and one of them wants to break up, so they unilaterally decide to completely cut off the news. Calling his home is always answered by a tape recorder, and his phone number has changed. He takes a detour to avoid any place you may go. How do you feel when you meet someone like this? It's heartbreaking to find out that you once loved a jerk, and what's even worse is that this jerk is still a coward!
If you don't call, it is an unforgivable evil. In some cases, it is even worse to call. There is a kind of dogged calling. Every time you pass your house, you call to greet, or else you can fill your voicemail. Whether you are in the office, on the road, in the dining room, or even in the bathroom, he can catch up with you... Is this kind of person annoying enough? Even worse than this is if he is your boyfriend who has already broken up.
After breaking up, he will call you and tell you, "I am heartbroken, but I can understand and respect your decision." Hearing such polite words, you start to wonder if you have let the real rare treasure slip away. The most regrettable mistake between lovers may be caused by yourself.