Who doesn't have any bad habits between husband and wife? Regardless of the situation, it is inevitable, but if not resolved in a timely manner, it will inevitably lead to war.
Whoever earns money, the husband and wife will be in charge
Whoever has money is the boss. Unconditionally make the other party obey your hegemonic attention. If this situation occurs in the marriage and family, the resentment of the other party will inevitably intensify. When it erupts, it will definitely be irreconcilable. Therefore, the hegemony between husband and wife must be measured, so as not to harm each other's harmony.
The division of labor between husband and wife is too standardized
Not every family is dominated by men and women, so don't impose others' marriage patterns on your own marriage. Only have a clear division of labor, based on the advantages of both parties. Only in this way can there be vitality and prosperity, and what about housewives and men? Live a happy life.
Request the other party according to their own lifestyle habits
Don't follow your own lifestyle habits and do the same to each other. Everyone's way of life is different. Since we have come together, we must learn to accommodate each other and tolerate their shortcomings. If we really can't bear it, speak it out politely and the other party will definitely accept it.
Work resentment brought to home to spread
Work is work, family is family, and we must not combine the two together. Nowadays, society is gathering so quickly, and people's hearts are divided. The fierce competition in society determines the intrigues and struggles in enterprises, such as fame and fortune, money, and so on. Don't bring such grievances back home, but appropriately complain to your partner, but don't be too emotional. Everyone has an old day, and the one who can accompany you to the end is your partner, It's not a tedious job.
Often talk about divorce
No matter how much conflict occurs, it is important not to easily say goodbye. In daily life, there are surveys where people who often say goodbye end up breaking up, and those who often say divorce end up getting divorced. Couples who have been together for so many years are definitely not as tolerant as in the early stages of love, so it is inevitable to encounter bumps and turns in life. However, it is important to learn to turn big things into small ones and avoid frequently mentioning divorce.
Don't negotiate, just be happy
After getting married, it's not as easy as falling in love. If you're happy, go on a date, and if you're not happy, don't go on a date. When things happen in marriage, you must learn to negotiate and avoid being one-sided. You can't just be happy and ignore the other person's thoughts and feelings.
The division between the parents' families is too clear
People should learn to think from the source when drinking water. Every child is raised by their parents, and marriage brings together two different families. Therefore, one should not be too selfish. Your parents are parents, and so are others. Do not divide the family too clearly. When couples have conflicts due to etiquette, it is important to learn to empathize and empathize with each other. Whether it's your mother's family or your husband's family, you must do your best when encountering things. Only in this way can the marital relationship be led into a virtuous chain.
Can't easily compare other members of the opposite sex with each other
Since you are married to the other party, you must believe in your choices and believe in them. When you see something your partner is doing that makes you uncomfortable, don't compare them to others because people are more popular than others. When you often say this sentence, the speaker unintentionally listens, and always compares the shortcomings of your partner with the strengths of the other party, which can hurt your self-esteem. Therefore, it is important to avoid doing so.
Frequently returning late without reason or staying out at night
Home is not just about eating, sleeping, and playing with beans. Perhaps you are busy, you have many friends, and there is a lot of socializing. However, you must remember that there is someone at home who is waiting for you to go home with a light on. Therefore, when you do anything, you must have a tolerance and think about homesickness, because this is your ultimate harbor.
Neglecting time and occasions to expose each other's shortcomings
Honest disclosure by couples is a good thing for communication and a more harmonious relationship. However, if you criticize each other indiscriminately, it will definitely make them lose face. If you have to criticize them, it must be tactful to avoid hurting the couple's relationship.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)