In marriage, when two people live together, it is inevitable to make a lot of noise. As long as it is not a "cold war", after the noise, find a step for the other party and continue to live in peace and beauty. This is the ultimate goal of marriage life.
When you quarrel with him, how do you reconcile with him? The following is the experience shared by netizens. The editor compiles it and shares it with everyone.>> Emotional Testing: Is Your Marriage Still Healthy?
Case 1:
A netizen dictated that my husband and I often struggle for small things, but after the quarrel, the two of us are sweet again. "Every time I quarrel, I cry and make noise, and he comes over to comfort me. I like this feeling.". But after a long time, this move didn't work at all, and even if I let it rain, he looked indifferent.
Then I thought of a way. After the quarrel, I stopped crying and making noises. Instead, I called my husband's brother's wife and said, "sister-in-law, what's up? Come over and play cards." Generally, both of them accept my invitation. My husband is a person with good face, and when the guests come, he smiles and says, "Wife, look who's here?" I made a gesture of having to give him face in front of others, and came out to entertain them, drink coffee, chat play cards. After my friend and husband left, my husband had to thank me and apologize to me. I walked down the steps safely.
Later, my husband seemed to have sensed something, and he deliberately tempted me, saying, "Why so coincidentally, it wasn't you who arranged it!" I smiled and said to him, "Be careful not to make me angry in the future, I have a way!"
Secret Recipe: Stealing "Foreign Aid"
In life, if you and your husband have one or more problems because of a fight, try this method of "stealing 'foreign aid'", which works very well!
Case 2:
A netizen dictated: "My husband is all right, just one minded person. If you argue with him, he never takes the initiative to talk to you, so every time I bow my head and admit my mistake, I just give up.". Let's take an example to see how I "set the stage" and share it with my sisters.
Secret Recipe: "Build Steps" for the Opposite Party
Step 1: Every time I quarrel, I feel aggrieved, so I sit there and whine, crying while shouting, "I've used up the paper towels, bring me the paper towels again." So, he bumps and brings the paper towels to help me wipe my tears. I lie down in his arms and act coquettishly, and he will hold me tightly.
Step 2: After a quarrel with my husband once, I went to the kitchen to cook, deliberately making the noise loud, and then shouted, "Ouch!" He quickly ran to see me covering one hand with the other, quickly pushed aside to see, "What's the matter? Did you cut your hand? Is it fierce?" When I pushed my hand away, he saw that I had deliberately deceived him and would kiss my cheek and coax me, saying, "Honey, hurry up and cook. After dinner, I'll take you out for a walk!"
The above are some secret recipes for couples after a quarrel, for your reference only. The specific situation needs to be analyzed in detail, and it is important not to turn a quarrel into a long-term "cold war", which can lead to a deadlock in the relationship between husband and wife.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)