Post Date April, 15 2023
1. Don't make your spouse feel lonely
Sex psychologists have found that loneliness is the main reason for cheating. If couples lack cordial and friendly emotional exchanges, loneliness will arise spontaneously. Some scholars have found that if one of the couples puts all their energy into work. Ignoring the concern for the spouse will result in the spouse's indifference to the sexual relationship between the husband and wife. When possible, they will find new sexual relationships. The sexual life between husband and wife is the link to maintain their love; It is not only physical intercourse, but also accompanied by emotional exchange.
2. Don't make life monotonous
Dr. Sandford pointed out in his book "Regulation of sexual life in middle age" that monotonous boredom is the cause of emotional change. After a few years of marriage, the enthusiasm began to cool down, and there was no mysterious temptation for each other in terms of body and mind. If the couple could not explore and find a new and more satisfactory way of life, some unwilling loners would look for foreign moments of joy.
3. Pay attention to respect the feelings of your spouse
Too many quarrels between husband and wife. If the so-called "big quarrels occur every day, small quarrels occur every day", the feelings will be hurt and estranged. "Sorrow is more than death of heart". When one party suffers from injury and can't bear it, it will make him lose confidence in marriage.
4. Correctly handle sexual life
The improper treatment of sexual life between husband and wife will also sow the seeds of sin for the affair. In this regard, women seem to have more responsibilities. Generally speaking, men's desire for sex life is stronger than women's, and sometimes they have to compromise in front of their wives in order to get the chance of sex life. Some women discover this secret and take sex life as a means of threatening and restricting each other. But when they are complacent, boredom and disgust are also quietly rooted in their husband's consciousness.
5. Full freedom to divorce
Some social psychologists believe that the fundamental reason for the increase of extramarital love is the lack of real freedom of divorce. In today's society, the concept of divorce is still very old. Some "dead" marriages feel that the cost of divorce is too high and are discouraged because of restrictions from all aspects. Therefore, the full freedom of divorce is also an important factor in reducing extramarital love and improving marital stability.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
