Post Date December, 03 2023
Secret 1: Real men are afraid of being rejected
Men are afraid of being rejected, especially by their closest woman. This has become a common problem for men. Men all want to be affirmed and praised. Their self-esteem is fragile like eggshell. Therefore, men don't like to tell their own thoughts, especially when they feel that their women are always choosy about themselves. They worry that they will be laughed at once they say it, which makes them feel humiliated. To love a man is to accept him, not to shape him. If you deny them before they speak, they will immediately become silent.
Secret 2: clarify your position
As mentioned earlier, it is very difficult for a man to tell his heart. Therefore, if they tell you their heart with all kinds of worries and anxieties, you should not only know that nodding is a sign of agreement, nor just that his view of the matter is wrong. Because what men need at this time is the happiness of sharing. They are actually very anxious when they tell you their worries. They will worry about whether you will leave them for this.
At this time, you need to immediately clarify your position and let him know that you are the same as him. These experiences are not unique to him. To create harmony, let him feel that you both occupy the same planet and live in a similar world. Your honesty and positive feedback are crucial. If you do this, he will be excited because of resonance.
Secret 3: Let go when it's time to let go
Men seldom mention the past, because they are very afraid that women will cling to the past. Their worries are reasonable. Most women always like to play the role of victims or "martyrs" to trap men. Complaints about love can make them feel good about themselves. Therefore, when a couple or lovers talk together, it is often easy to evolve into "memories" at the end, including the mistakes he made, the way he hurt you and what he owes you now, etc. This feeling of "guilt" will make men cringe.
A wise woman should learn to let go of the past. Even if it's his mistake, you can't say that she is not responsible. If your relationship requires you to play the role of a resentful woman and make sacrifices to keep a man, it already shows that there is a problem with your feelings.
Secret 4: exercise the courage to listen to the truth
In real life, many women like to control men through emotions, and then control the relationship between two people. Women often ask men to make a specific response. If they can't get it, they will cry and be depressed. That's why many men say that they are not afraid to express their true feelings to their partners about what happens in life, because they are afraid that it will disappoint the other party.
Therefore, women should exercise their courage to listen to the truth. Being willing to listen to the truth is actually the beginning of a truly mature sexual relationship. Only in this way can a man feel that he has a reliable partner who can share difficulties with him. Fantasy can make a woman feel good. But only by accepting more facts can we become stronger. The real security does not come from the recognition of others but from being sincere to himself and listening to the truth, Only in this way can we face our feelings and life more frankly.
Secret 5: Be true to yourself
A woman who is full of warmth and acceptance can always help a man speak his mind naturally and honestly and open his mind. When a woman can fully accept herself, she can create a completely relaxed state. This relaxed state naturally forms a unique charm on her body, which makes others trust her and is willing to speak out. Therefore, a woman should be true to herself and have a clear understanding of herself. How can a person who can't let herself go forgive others and make others feel kind?
