Need to be considerate
A man's energy release during orgasm is only five seconds, but he has to pay a lot of energy for it. If someone doesn't wait for you occasionally, don't complain and give him understanding and comfort.
Physical communication is an activity that can only be carried out when you have the most energy. Long-term fatigue and depression can make people lose interest. Most people have a misconception that sex is natural and there is no need to make arrangements, so they often fall into the embarrassment of not making time for sex. From now on, carefully arrange your time to enjoy your body, and the desire will gradually return to you.
About 3/4 of all sex-related problems are caused by anxiety, nervousness, nervousness or boredom rather than sexual dysfunction. How can one maintain normal sexual desire after marriage? What is "normal" sexual desire? There is no standard answer to this kind of question. Each person's problem must be solved according to his own situation. However, the loss of libido is not an incurable disease. Usually, it can be quickly improved by adjusting the mentality. It is a very effective means to go to the specialist for help boldly.
Need to communicate
Many sexual barriers cannot be solved, often because one or both parties will not or will not communicate with each other in a frank and sincere manner.
In terms of physical needs, don't trust the ostentatious guidance and say what to keep "mysterious". There is no need for mystery or even hint. The most effective way to make your body as satisfied as him is to tell him what you need and what he should do?
Don't let your partner grope, guess, or even find you in terms of physical enjoyment. He will be tired, depressed, bored, and then escape or run away. These are all the consequences of mystery. So tell him
If you want to make the love attraction between you more exciting and attractive, you should first accurately confirm: before your physical contact, what advantages does he most appreciate you? These advantages have a long-term attraction for him. Don't ignore them because the relationship has gone further and is stable. We should continue to maintain and carry forward.
For a man, sex is the original form he is willing to give, and it is the way to give his soul and flesh. Therefore, men's self-esteem and enthusiasm when paying for themselves are easily injured. Your refusal or dismissive response will be a great blow to him. Even if you don't want to, don't give comfort with softness.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)