Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage holds extraordinary significance for everyone. Of course, many people consider marriage as the tomb of love, but I tend to see marriage as the destination of love. However, marriage is not just about two people living together. Marriage needs to be maintained and managed jointly by both parties. To have a romantic and long-lasting marriage, we must achieve these goals.
1. Learn to express gratitude
Don't think you don't need to be so polite if you're all an old man and wife, but I think the highest emotional intelligence behavior is to maintain enough patience and respect even when facing the person closest to you. In marriage, we should learn to express our gratitude and not be stingy with our praise. This is also a sweet experience for the other party.
2. Treat his family like you treat your own
In recent years, the biggest killer of marriage has undoubtedly been the mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship. To resolve the awkwardness between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we must learn to treat each other's parents calmly, treat your partner's family like our own, and a harmonious and warm family can breed a romantic marriage.
3. Having an independent social circle
Marriage does not necessarily mean that two people must be together in everything. Everyone should have their own independent social circle, and personality is often more attractive because of independence. Couples should have their own independent social circle.
4. Argue on a case by case basis
It is inevitable for two people to have some arguments when living together, but when arguing, it is important to have a good level of control and not touch each other's bottom line. A small argument can bring joy to one's emotions, while a big one can harm one's health. Without a bottom line argument, it is inevitable that it will cause harm to each other's emotions.
5. Create surprises
A beautiful marriage is often ruined by mediocrity, and the life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea can inevitably make people feel bored. Therefore, we need to try to make changes and constantly create some surprises.
A good marital relationship requires both parties to maintain it together, so no matter who you are, you should learn to give in marriage, not just sit back and enjoy it. Only by knowing how to give can you reap the rewards.
