Surprise! Couple sex, drunken husband hugging me but boasting about my little sweetheart's bed skills

My husband and I are college classmates. After four years of love, we got married. Later on, with children, first-tier cities experienced great pressure and high consumption. My husband and I discussed having the child back home, and he agreed. During the childbirth period, I dragged my heavy body back to my hometown for childbirth. At the moment the child was born, my husband's face was filled with joy, and our world of two was upgraded to a family of three.

After the baby was born, my husband rented a larger house, and my mother-in-law stayed with us to help me with my baby. I returned to work again. My husband and I love each other very much, and everything is handled through negotiation. Although there may be some family disputes, for me, they are just trivial matters. I support my husband, and I support his career even more. Three years ago, he communicated with me and analyzed that working for a job does not make money. He wants to start a business with several friends to give me and my child a better life. "I agreed. I don't have much money in hand. In addition to borrowing money from relatives and friends, we borrowed some money from the bank.".

He did not live up to my expectations for him. In a few years, their profits have doubled, and now he is also considered a small millionaire. "We changed the house, had a hardcover decoration, and hired a nanny. I no longer have to do housework, cook, and take care of my children as soon as I get off work.". After improving my economic life, I have more free time. I often invite a few friends to play mahjong, do hairdressing, go shopping, occasionally show my hands, and cook two good dishes for my husband. People outside envy me for my vision. Looking for a man with such potential, I have a unique face and am used to hearing these praises.

After becoming a boss, he has had relatively more social engagements. Get drunk every once in a while, and every time you're drunk, you're unconscious. I sometimes feel angry and want to hit him, but when I see his uncomfortable appearance, I can't bear it. He also paid for this family, and I am ashamed to blame him. Later, I don't know why. The conflicts between us have become deeper and deeper. We often quarrel and quarrel, and our marital life has significantly decreased. Every time I have sex, I can feel him perfunctory. I have never doubted him, and all these years of affection have not been easy along the way.

Last month, he called to tell me that he wanted to socialize and stop waiting for him. He told me to go to bed earlier. I'm very upset, but I can't help it. It's already one o'clock in the morning and he hasn't come back yet. "I dialed the phone and it was a woman who answered, 'I'm General Manager Liu's secretary. He's very drunk. We'll find a driver to take him back later. Please rest assured, sister-in-law.' When I heard that a woman answered the phone, I wanted to get angry. She called me" sister-in-law "and made me lose my temper.".

Half an hour later, my husband returned. He was drinking alcohol, but he wasn't as "drunk" as the other person said. He can walk and bathe normally. After drinking, he was promiscuous and climbed into bed constantly teasing me, whatever I wanted. "I compromised and cooperated with him. After more than ten minutes, he lay exhausted on the bed and muttered, 'Wife, why are you so bad compared to Little Ai?' Wait a minute, who's Little Ai?"? I shook my husband and asked him to explain to me that he was already sleeping soundly. I was particularly excited. I flipped through his briefcase and checked his mobile phone, but I couldn't find anything. That night, I lost sleep.

The next day when he woke up, I asked him who was the "little Ai" in his mouth last night and what did those words mean? "He paused for a moment, then regained his composure and smiled, 'Don't mind talking nonsense after drinking.'". He ran away with his briefcase under his arm while I wasn't paying attention. "I was thinking about it wrong, so I went to their company to inquire about this woman. Their colleagues said that Xiao Ai was the secretary of my husband... I've been guarding a man for several years, and I'm getting along with the secretary.". I can't accept such a result anyway. Nowadays, I have quarreled with my husband many times, and he refuses to admit it and even says that I have nothing to do with it. Please help me analyze it. What should I do?

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

After several years of marriage, according to the natural law of development, it has reached a plateau. At this time, marriage has no sense of stimulation, let alone novelty. As long as there is a slight dissatisfaction in marriage, it is easy for men to go outside and have fun. Men who cheat always make excuses for themselves. Some men are even more outrageous, and even require their wives to accept a third party. His confidence stems from his success, believing that having money and power can turn everything around.

"Your husband, who has a track record of cheating, highlights that kind of language after drinking, and is unwilling to admit it after waking up. Either he may be afraid of you messing with him and damaging his boss's image, or he may just be playing with a third party, with a greater element of opportunism.". "You made trouble with him and he didn't take the action, which is enough to confirm that he didn't consider the threat he posed to his family by cheating.". When he was drunk, he said that kind of demeaning words. Please savor it carefully and let's not mention his cheating. There may be some problems with the sexual affairs between your husband and wife.

Men who succeed in their careers are more likely to be remembered. There are many third parties who lose their moral bottom line for money. "Now that your husband doesn't admit it, you need to clarify the situation first. If it's really like you guessed, he has an affair with his secretary, you can completely keep him away from that woman. If there's a problem with his marriage, be calm and don't mess up.". Give up your marriage hand in hand, and your heart will not be reconciled. So cheer up and defend your marriage is the absolute principle.